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Old 06-04-2019, 09:03 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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I've had 2 spayed so far this summer. Before, they were accepted in the flock/herd/gaggle. Now they're both being chased away.

what gives? even the friendliest ferals want nothing to do with them and won't let them eat unless I'm standing right there.




gotta run for a bit bit I'm looking forward to some answers...please.
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Old 06-04-2019, 09:14 AM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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If you spayed them recently, perhaps they are being shunned because they smell "off" (like vet/people). Are you able to rub a towel on any of the friendly ferals to spread the "good" smells back?

I've spayed four ferals. One was a loner female. Two were males. I honestly haven't seen the fourth cat we've spayed in months, so IDK if he survived the winter. I realize this isn't much help, but IME most of the cats we've trapped have been either loners or in small groups.

My guess is that they need more time to re-integrate.
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Old 06-04-2019, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Raleigh
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It isn't unusual for neutered male dogs to behave aggressively towards intact males. I guess its not surprising that cats act catty.
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Old 06-04-2019, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Northern California
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Give them time, we did tnr on at least 20 cats, but we were not the only food source, plus some wer loners or litter mates, so did not notice any negative reactions. It is a good thing to do, thank you for helping them.
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Old 06-04-2019, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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most recent was 4/25.

May appointment were cancelled by the clinic.


Another one this week.


I guess it's just the way kitties are. sigh
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Old 06-04-2019, 12:42 PM
 
Location: ☀️ SFL (hell for me-wife loves it)
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OP, your observation is correct, imho; and I have no answer for you. I guess the females are just lower in the heirarchy
of catdom. We have one outdoor female, spayed; and she is the lowest on the totem pole. The males allow her to eat, but only after they do so. I often think of the lions' prides. It looks very similar to me. As long as she is allowed food, (seems like yours are not) I don't worry.
See if one of the males befriends her. That's what has happened in my case.

* A clowder of cats. I love saying that
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Old 06-04-2019, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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They're all female. but maybe they sense that the spayed ones are odd in some way.


got 4 more regulars to do and one calico that only comes around sometimes.
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Old 06-04-2019, 03:34 PM
 
Location: ☀️ SFL (hell for me-wife loves it)
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Yes, I've thought that too. They can somewhow sense the difference.
All females? Never been in that situation, so again, I cannot help. Only empathize.
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Old 06-04-2019, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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well, I can send you some if you like.


I've got one small long haired torty, a regular size torty (Splotch), 2 solid gray, one with orange highlights (spayed and not liked at the moment) , a tiger and white (pretty but quite nasty-named Spot because there's a white spot in the tiger stripes), a tiger with no white( started off as quite the ugly kitten, now quite attractive adult-spayed and not liked)


probably more.

so how many would you like? I'll share.
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Old 06-05-2019, 12:58 AM
 
Location: Alaska
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well, I can send you some if you like.


I've got one small long haired torty, a regular size torty (Splotch), 2 solid gray, one with orange highlights (spayed and not liked at the moment) , a tiger and white (pretty but quite nasty-named Spot because there's a white spot in the tiger stripes), a tiger with no white( started off as quite the ugly kitten, now quite attractive adult-spayed and not liked)


probably more.

so how many would you like? I'll share.
I love Torties! I'll take two - let me know when I can pick them up from the airport. Just kidding of course (kinda of).

How soon after spaying did you notice the behavioral changes? I too believe it may be the smell - they became 'strangers' if that makes any sense. Eventually, they'll get used to the new odor and they won't be newbies any longer.

Thanks for taking care of them.
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