Mel Gibson and his mistress split (single, picture, married, reputation)

[PippySkiddles]

Mel Gibson and Oksana Grigorieva Split - Breakups, Mel Gibson, Oksana Grigorieva : People.com


well golly gee............go figure. The thrill of the chase is gone.

[LQQKOUT]

ha- jerk

[canibeyou]

Since he's single... we call that "having a girlfriend".

When you're married and seeing someone other than your wife, we call that a "mistress".

[PippySkiddles]

Originally Posted by canibeyou

Since he's single... we call that "having a girlfriend".

When you're married and seeing someone other than your wife, we call that a "mistress".

who was that directed at?
He is still married therefore the girlfriend is the mistress.

[canibeyou]

Um... lemme think... that would be YOU.

He filed for divorce on April 13, 2009. Over a year ago. So he's been living as a single person since April 13, 2009. Is the ink dry on the divorce? No, due to assets being divided, courts being backed up, etc.

When you file for divorce and move out and no longer live with your wife/ husband... it's called "free to openly date and sleep with whomever you want and depending on the sex of that other person, they are your boyfriend or girlfriend." They stop being your "mistress" when you stop living as husband and wife and you wait for the courts to finalize things.

Moderator cut: Rude

Personally, I'm amazed when marriages break up over a mistress, that the mistress is still in the picture as the dust is settling. That doesn't normally happen. She lasted a year and chose to have a baby with him. Wow.


And, FTR, I don't know why he'd be considered a "jerk" for no longer wanting to date his GIRLFRIEND. How many millions of people break up with S/O's every day... they always have an excuse but we don't label them all as "jerk".

[PippySkiddles]

Originally Posted by canibeyou

Um... lemme think... that would be YOU.

He filed for divorce on April 13, 2009. Over a year ago. So he's been living as a single person since April 13, 2009. Is the ink dry on the divorce? No, due to assets being divided, courts being backed up, etc.

When you file for divorce and move out and no longer live with your wife/ husband... it's called "free to openly date and sleep with whomever you want and depending on the sex of that other person, they are your boyfriend or girlfriend." They stop being your "mistress" when you stop living as husband and wife and you wait for the courts to finalize things.

Moderator cut: Rude

Personally, I'm amazed when marriages break up over a mistress, that the mistress is still in the picture as the dust is settling. That doesn't normally happen. She lasted a year and chose to have a baby with him. Wow.


And, FTR, I don't know why he'd be considered a "jerk" for no longer wanting to date his GIRLFRIEND. How many millions of people break up with S/O's every day... they always have an excuse but we don't label them all as "jerk".

WOW!!!!!!! someone is taking this very personally. Perhaps you're a mistress, er meant girlfriend of someone who is NOT divorced but estranged from his wife

[bayarea-girl]

I think Mel's divorce is taking longer because he really wants to be with his wife (yeah sure they have assets and all that but the process could have gone faster if he or is wife wanted it to). To me he never seemed happy when seen with his baby's mama. He falls in the jerk category because he did cheat on his wife and at his age he shouldn't be getting anyone pregnant. He already has so many kids with his current wife. His kids must be really feeling all the unnecessary strain and embarrassment he has caused. And of course his mistress got pregnant how else is she going to launch her singing career (she needs the checks to keep coming).

[WhatSayYou]

shocking. I'm stunned with this news.

he needs to promptly go on Larry King to explain his side, everything. (they both do)

[canibeyou]

Originally Posted by PippySkiddles

WOW!!!!!!! someone is taking this very personally. Perhaps you're a mistress, er meant girlfriend of someone who is NOT divorced but estranged from his wife
Me thinks YOU need a freakin chill pill.

What happens when we assume class??? That's right!!! Sorry to burst your attempt at being witty, but I don't so sloppy seconds.

Personally, I don't care who he dates, sticks his thing in, makes babies with, flips off, yells racist remarks at, etc.

But I think it's in poor taste when someone tries to degrade another human being by misleading people or making incorrect statements to make another human being look nastier than they really are.

He broke up with his girlfriend. He's not still sleeping around on his wife any more and hasn't for over a year. He does enough things on his own to ruin his reputation. You don't need to try and make a break up with a girlfriend sound worse than it is.

Here's a perfect example of how the news is accurately reported (as compared to how you report it):

Mel Gibson splits from girlfriend five months after their baby was born | Metro.co.uk

Report: Mel Gibson and Girlfriend Break Up at The Insider

Report: Mel Gibson And Girlfriend Break Up (http://www.etonline.com/news/2010/04/85936/index.html - broken link)

Yada, yada, yada. Seeing a pattern here? No one but you thinks she's still a mistress. But it makes it sound so much worse when you obviously don't like the guy and wanna make him look even more horrible. No need... he does that to himself just fine with no assistance needed from you.

Carry on.

[gsfan]

"example of how the news is accurately reported"....they actually do that?