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Originally Posted by tjcutie
I am moving to Charlotte this summer and I want to know where the intelligent, decent black men hang out in Charlotte. I want to avoid the street thugs like a plague.
I'm guessng that you are in or near a northern city where there are black clubs. It would be best to wait until you arrive in Charlotte, then ask someone personally.
So right, Miss Loves. And speaking of dinner . . . I forgot to get anything out of the freezer. So I think Mr. Stouffer is going to be our chef tonite, Hee Hee . . . perhaps some lasagna or fettucini alfredo. Mr. Stouffer plus a salad . . .
Hey, I'm the only one home in my familty tonight so I just ate a Lean Cuisine -but I like Stouffer's better!
Sound like you are taking things too personal, the lady protests too much, I wonder why.....
If you can't see the ignorance and rudeness in your original question then I have to tell you, you won't be attracting those intelligent men you claim to be looking for
Besides church groups, how about reunions of historically black colleges? Sometimes if enough folks are in a town, other than where the college was, they'll get together periodically. Do you know a Black fraternity that you like? See if they have any functions for former members in Charlotte.
Don't know who this poster is, but would it be racist if the OP asked what clubs did "young, professional Koreans" frequent in Charlotte?? An Irish person asking about about single Irish Charlotteans? Someone from Brazil wondering if there is a Brazilian community here?
People have cultural differences and like to know what they can expect culturally when they move to a new area. Of course, culture/race isn't the only thing we look at when choosing social activities, but there is nothing wrong with seeking out activities that might attract people with a common background.
Last edited by baybook; 05-16-2008 at 06:39 AM..
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Don't know who this poster is, but would it be racist if the OP asked what clubs did "young, professional Koreans" frequent in Charlotte?? An Irish person asking about about single Irish Charlotteans? Someone from Brazil wondering if there is a Brazilian community here?
People have cultural differences and like to know what they can expect culturally when they move to a new area. Of course, culture/race isn't the only thing we look at when choosing social activities, but there is nothing wrong with seeking out activities that might attract people with a common background.
I'm talking about color, not nationality. Go ahead and ask where white people hang out and see what response you get. Double standards exists in the U.S. Asking where Brazilians hang out does not elliminate a "race". There is a difference.
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So I think Mr. Stouffer is going to be our chef tonite, Hee Hee . . . perhaps some lasagna or fettucini alfredo. Mr. Stouffer plus a salad . . .
