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Old 12-16-2008, 03:47 PM
 
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ROFL...how true...

in the meantime that crab mushroom recipe would be great
It's my sisters recipe so I will have to get it from her and then I will get it to you. It might take a little while but I will get it to you. There will most likely be no measurements just ingredients (that's how we cook, sorry)
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Old 12-16-2008, 03:48 PM
 
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ahh no problem, Im sure I can figure it out!!! thank you as I do appreciate it
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Old 12-16-2008, 06:55 PM
 
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Growing up, all of the cousins, aunts & uncles would gather at one of my grandparent's houses on Christmas Eve. The kids would decorate the tree, and when it was finished, everyone would gather around the tree and sing Norwegian songs & Christmas carols. We had a light supper, opened presents and then left for the OTHER grandma's house. That was mostly for the adults. Later,we would go home and open all of the gifts. By this time, it really was Christmas morning...probably 1 or 2 am. Everyone would go to bed afterwards and then Christmas day was just recovering from it all! (especially the adults)
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:24 PM
 
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Growing up, all of the cousins, aunts & uncles would gather at one of my grandparent's houses on Christmas Eve. The kids would decorate the tree, and when it was finished, everyone would gather around the tree and sing Norwegian songs & Christmas carols. We had a light supper, opened presents and then left for the OTHER grandma's house. That was mostly for the adults. Later,we would go home and open all of the gifts. By this time, it really was Christmas morning...probably 1 or 2 am. Everyone would go to bed afterwards and then Christmas day was just recovering from it all! (especially the adults)
Wow, CHI! You really are Norwegian! I had wondered after you posted the Christmas pictures of folk dress . . . but then I thought - well, maybe this was a "Christmas Around the World" type of gathering . . . How neat to be so connected to your roots! A Southerner can really appreciate that!!!
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Old 12-17-2008, 07:50 AM
 
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Wow, CHI! You really are Norwegian! I had wondered after you posted the Christmas pictures of folk dress . . . but then I thought - well, maybe this was a "Christmas Around the World" type of gathering . . . How neat to be so connected to your roots! A Southerner can really appreciate that!!!
Yes, my grandmother actually came to this country from Norway. She was about 14-15 and came as a servant. Her father had made the trip a few years before and was lost at sea. (so, imagine her courage to get on a boat to come here alone!) She came to work and send the money home to her family. She was originally only supposed to be here for a year or so, but, met my grandfather (a first generation Irish immigrant) and, ended up staying.

Grandma did not talk much about coming here nor a lot about her life there. She did, however, always talk about how difficult it was for her when she got here as she did not know the language nor the culture...nothing about this country. And, she was alone. She inspired me to always be an advocate for the immigrant, to learn about other countries & cultures and that is my passion to this day.

Unfortunately, she died when I was about 12 and all of the other members of that side of the family have also died, except for one. So, now that I am older and really want to know more about my heritage, it is a little difficult. I am learning things a little bit at a time and have joined a club, Sons of Norway, to learn more. That was how I got to the Christmas party.

OH! and something to just garner a response: Grandma was an illegal alien. (true story) So, I really cannot say anything about the illegal alien controversy that is here today.
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Old 12-17-2008, 10:18 AM
 
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That is a wonderful story, CHI!!!

The situation w/ emigration to the USA during the 19th and early 20th Century is not comparable to our situation today as far as economic impact (overall) throughout the country. Nearly half of the non-citizens here today are using some form of government assistance (welfare) . . . whereas earlier emigrants came here and established themselves in communities, where they contributed to the economy (regardless of whether they were legally here or not).

Energy of a Nation: Immigration Resources - Waves of Norwegian Immigrants

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When the Norwegians emigrated to the U.S. during the 1800s, they brought their traditions with them. One of these traditions was farming. Many Norwegian immigrants made a living as farmers, growing such crops as wheat and corn and raising cattle and hogs. In 1900, nearly 54 percent of Norwegian children came from farming families. It was also common for other Norwegian and Scandinavian men to work in the construction, logging, and shipping industries. While the men worked in physical occupations, women at the time, worked as domestic or personal servants.

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Many of these newcomers went on to establish their own farms . . . and raise families that continued that tradition, into the 20th Century.

ETA: Meant to add . . . Norwegians helped establish Lutheran communities, especially throughout the upper midwest. So wondered if your family had remained Lutheran through the years?
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Old 12-17-2008, 10:36 AM
 
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That is a wonderful story, CHI!!!

The situation w/ emigration to the USA during the 19th and early 20th Century is not comparable to our situation today as far as economic impact (overall) throughout the country. Nearly half of the non-citizens here today are using some form of government assistance (welfare) . . . whereas earlier emigrants came here and established themselves in communities, where they contributed to the economy (regardless of whether they were legally here or not).

Energy of a Nation: Immigration Resources - Waves of Norwegian Immigrants

excerpt:

When the Norwegians emigrated to the U.S. during the 1800s, they brought their traditions with them. One of these traditions was farming. Many Norwegian immigrants made a living as farmers, growing such crops as wheat and corn and raising cattle and hogs. In 1900, nearly 54 percent of Norwegian children came from farming families. It was also common for other Norwegian and Scandinavian men to work in the construction, logging, and shipping industries. While the men worked in physical occupations, women at the time, worked as domestic or personal servants.

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Many of these newcomers went on to establish their own farms . . . and raise families that continued that tradition, into the 20th Century.

ETA: Meant to add . . . Norwegians helped establish Lutheran communities, especially throughout the upper midwest. So wondered if your family had remained Lutheran through the years?
OH YES. another reason for my "disown-ment" When I moved south, could not find the "proper" Lutheran church...(long story), so, I just settled in on a non-denominational church, where I am today. That horrified the family who, following Grandma's tradition, are all staunch Lutherans today.

Although living in Chicago, Grandma did not farm... , she was very handy with the garden and always had lots of plants and things...planted the Christmas tree every year, don't know how she did it, but, it grew!! Her family did come from a dairy farm on a fijord (mountain).

Great link, Ani. Just sent it to my cousins! thanks!
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Old 12-17-2008, 10:54 AM
 
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OH YES. another reason for my "disown-ment" When I moved south, could not find the "proper" Lutheran church...(long story), so, I just settled in on a non-denominational church, where I am today. That horrified the family who, following Grandma's tradition, are all staunch Lutherans today.

Although living in Chicago, Grandma did not farm... , she was very handy with the garden and always had lots of plants and things...planted the Christmas tree every year, don't know how she did it, but, it grew!! Her family did come from a dairy farm on a fijord (mountain).

Great link, Ani. Just sent it to my cousins! thanks!
The "dis-ownment" thing is not unusual!!! My DH's family has an interesting background. His GGGrandfather came here w/ the group that established what would become the Missouri Lutheran Church. The entire group were Germans, who did not speak English, and who established their community S of St. Louis (Perry CO). DH's dad then married a Catholic, whose ancestors were original settles in the Maryland Colonies (St. Mary's Parish, Rockville). DH's g/parents did not speak to their son for years . . . So it happens.

What is so ridiculous . . . Lutherans and Catholics today espouse nearly identical theology and the church services in both denominations are liturgically so similar . . . it seems absurd that small differences in religious expression could tear a family apart.

And to get it back to Christmas and Hanukkah traditions . . . if you walk into a Christmas Eve service at a Catholic or Lutheran Church, you would not be able to tell the difference by what you see or hear as far as the service itself.
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Old 12-17-2008, 11:01 AM
 
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Yes, my grandmother actually came to this country from Norway. She was about 14-15 and came as a servant. Her father had made the trip a few years before and was lost at sea. (so, imagine her courage to get on a boat to come here alone!) She came to work and send the money home to her family. She was originally only supposed to be here for a year or so, but, met my grandfather (a first generation Irish immigrant) and, ended up staying.

Grandma did not talk much about coming here nor a lot about her life there. She did, however, always talk about how difficult it was for her when she got here as she did not know the language nor the culture...nothing about this country. And, she was alone. She inspired me to always be an advocate for the immigrant, to learn about other countries & cultures and that is my passion to this day.

Unfortunately, she died when I was about 12 and all of the other members of that side of the family have also died, except for one. So, now that I am older and really want to know more about my heritage, it is a little difficult. I am learning things a little bit at a time and have joined a club, Sons of Norway, to learn more. That was how I got to the Christmas party.

OH! and something to just garner a response: Grandma was an illegal alien. (true story) So, I really cannot say anything about the illegal alien controversy that is here today.
If you want to trace your family in Norway, I think that I can help you.
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Old 12-17-2008, 11:05 AM
 
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If you want to trace your family in Norway, I think that I can help you.
WOW! that would be great!
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