My husband and I are planning on moving down in shifts. It is almost impossible for most families to move all at once. Dh is looking for a job in Charlotte and when he finds one he will move down and stay with a friend. I will move down with our daughter once I sell our current home. Is it going to be hard on us? I am sure at times but it is ALWAYS a good idea to know the area before moving. And, since I am the Southerner and he gets to live in the nice weather and I stay in the North and freeze. But, you would not want to buy a home and then find out that your house is near a landfill or in a bad area. Or anything that you do not desire. Maybe if you got together ALL of the information you would need to move: Apt location (safe, nice area) and anything else to show that you will be fine and he will be fine and it is for the best. You do have a lifetime together and a few weeks or months in nothing.
Reassure your hubby that it is not worth fighting now since you will be leaving soon to find a new home
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