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Old 05-07-2008, 05:14 PM
 
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you sleep with your dad?
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Old 05-07-2008, 05:45 PM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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AAmert,


What does this mean? Ghetto is a place not a person. I don't use slang in my everyday vocabulary so I am not sure what you mean by that. Can you explain?

Thanks


The girl is what we like to call 'ghetto',
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Old 05-07-2008, 06:31 PM
 
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Didn't the description of a "often having new guys over" paint a picture this a person likely to end up on "who my baby daddy" episode of Maury? OR maybe on Springer show titled: "I'd tell more guys I have VD but I can't spell it"!

It ain't a race thing, it is a "lifestyle choice"...
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Old 05-07-2008, 08:15 PM
 
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I had the same problem with a Hyde Park condo I owned 20 years ago. One night my wife was out of town (so no TV in my bedroom) and I could clearly hear the sounds of passion of the doctor in the unit above me. It was really odd.

I suggest you cobble up a condo association with rules as to renters, use of common areas, review of prospective renters, etc.
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Old 05-07-2008, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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...I live in a 4-unit condo building in Rogers Park. Two units (incl. us) are owner occupied while the bottom two units are occupied by Rental tenants....

...Since there is no condo association there is no where to complain about it. I don't want to make big issues and try to talk to her calmly but this sex noise thing is very very annoying and embarrassing (at least in my culture), since i sleep with my dad ( now i know why my mom moved into the different bedroom).

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How do you live in a building of condos with no association?
No offense, but why are you sleeping in the same bed as your dad?
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Old 05-07-2008, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Southeast Missouri
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I'd move if I at all could. Either that or find some way to block it out.

If you're hearing it I would guess her kids are, too. I'd think that would be traumatizing for them.

Move if at all possible, especially if you can't make her stop. Either that, or sleep with headphones on all night.
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Old 05-07-2008, 09:47 PM
 
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Evict them. You own a share of the place. Make it happen.

We have renters below us, but since we're a condo building we can evict them with little cause. It's in our bylaws. Renters have fewer rights in condo building with well-written bylaws.
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Old 05-08-2008, 06:22 AM
 
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There are some simplified rules for condos with less than 6 units. Not sure if that is going to help you are not, I'd check with an attorney. Worst case you get to tell your story to someone else, and attorneys generally appreciate something with sex sounds...
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Old 05-08-2008, 06:34 AM
 
Location: Tulsa, OK
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Have you told them, very nicely, you hear them and you are sure others are too. People, in a moment of passion, may not be aware of how loud they are.
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Old 05-08-2008, 06:46 AM
 
Location: Where the sun always shines..
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you sleep with your dad?

I was wonderin about this too, same bed or same room??

Ahh yes, the joys of "apartment" living. Currently renting and moving to a condo complex where the class of people is much better. Part of his problem though is he bought in a complex where they allow rentals. I would have looked into this before buying, it's a red flag for me.

As far as the girl being "Ghetto", it's simply new generation word for trash, in her case she's trashy and promiscuous.. What are the fact that she may be Protituting? Its odd to hear the there are different men coming and going all the time, the times seem a bit nutty. Although, not to nutty if your a nympho..
Id buy some condoms and tape them in an envelope onto her door.. she may get the hint
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