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Thank you all for your loving and kind words and also for your direct truthfulness as well...understand this I Love God first and my wife second and i will not give up on my family i never wanted to and dont have any intentions on doing so and if you guys will pray for me and my wife and our 4 children whom are such a blessing to us i would definately say Amen again and again!
You both know the reason for this disruption in your life, perhaps it is time to put it in the past..
Follow your heart Ian, spend time alone together in a place where you can relax and just talk..Spend time together as a family..If your pastor is advising you, continue that..It takes time to rebuild trust and especially for a woman to feel like she is the only one on your mind and in your future..
How do i begin my fight for my family we are both praying together and letting God...
Has your wife quit talking to this other man? You both need to decide to recommit to one another before anything else. You both need to decide that your marriage is worth fighting for.
Only you know what needs fixing in your marriage (finances, responsibilities, caring for children, intimacy, job/no job, etc...).
I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
God gave you a brain. Use it. Think. That stuff up there between your ears is there for a purpose.
Don't expect other people to give you the advice you need. You MUST be the one to do this.
It doesn't matter if you pray about it or merely sit under a tree and quietly think....you have to think about what is the best thing for you to do for everyone. Then DO IT.
It really doesn't matter if someone feels that it is the "Christian" thing to do....it could be the Muslem way, or the Jewish way, or a dozen other religions way. You have to do the best thing for everyone.
I have a feeling that you really want to just throw up your hands and run away from your responsibilities. That won't work.
There is nothing wrong with asking for advice. Sometimes it's good to get some outside perspective. Ultimately, we all have to make our own decisions, but it doesn't hurt to get some ideas from others. Then we decide if the advice makes sense to us and whether or not we should follow that advice.
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