I am putting this here because I want some input from other Christians.
One of my oldest & best friends has been going to school to be a preacher & he's almost done with school.
A few months ago he met a women while in school she goes to the same school as he does. She's from China & has been in the states for some four years now. Now he has been single for a long time now & tends to want to jump into the first relationship that comes along. Which he did with both feet.
They dated for a Very short time & while visiting her parents in China they got married. Now all his friends agree that they rushed into the marriage. While they were dating things were great no problems what so ever. She was even fine with my wife & I being Pagan including my sister who is also Pagan.
Now that they are married she has changed her mind about her caring about us being Pagans even more to the point she doesn't want him to have ANY friends other then herself.
Keep in mind she wasn't like this when they were dating they even came down & visited us soon after my mom passed. My friend looked terrible trying to deal with her & finish school but it was more her stressing her out then school.
They both have been going to therapy. She refuses to admit that she has a problem with her anxiety.
She had accused him of cheating on him more then once when she see's that he is talking to another women even if there is a guy there with them talking. My friend is loyal to a fault in all honesty.
Here is the reason why I post this here. He feels that IF he divorces her that as a Christians he'll be looked down on by other Christians & that he feels like they will judge him for that. I told him that no matter what his friends & family will still love him & stand by him no matter what he does.
I feel that it's going to get worse for him if they stay together. His wife's sister told him that if he wants out of the marriage she & her family would understand.
He is really in a bad place now, can someone give me some advice as to help him?
Thanks!