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I am not any longer. I bit my tongue for over a year. I am no longer in that situation but I expressed my feelings professionally at the end. They think I have an attitude problem.
I am 48. I have went to church most of my life. At the present time, I do not attend a church because I am not sure which one to go to. However, as far as guarding my ton, I am not nasty with anyone or use curse words I just honestly tell them about a situation, etc.
If you are doing things in a loving Christian way, and not having any conflict and not having problems w/ people then you shouldn't be having problems.
Other peoples problems are their own problems. be it they are liars or not, we cannot judge and we cannot deal w/ it then it's time to not deal w/ them. Conflict or anything negative won't resolve anything. Just pray about it and you'll be fine as long as you don't participate in anything that you in your heart isn't good.
Originally Posted by PG77Well, just believing that you are right is not enough, you must also have proof that you are right.
I mean if you are wrong, but believe that you are right, no one will agree with you and their claim that you have an attitude problem turns out to be true. If you cannot admit to yourself that you might be wrong you might have a real problem, because what started as a discussion will only end up in a shouting contest.
Originally Posted by PrinnyNo, don't worry that was a jab at Greatday.
I don't know you well enough to say that you are dishonest or not.
Tricky, on that note, I'll add, Greatday is a very kind person. Let's leave another forum in another forum okay. Be fair about it.
If you are doing things in a loving Christian way, and not having any conflict and not having problems w/ people then you shouldn't be having problems.
Other peoples problems are their own problems. be it they are liars or not, we cannot judge and we cannot deal w/ it then it's time to not deal w/ them. Conflict or anything negative won't resolve anything. Just pray about it and you'll be fine as long as you don't participate in anything that you in your heart isn't good.
I have a ton of evidence but it did no good. It was like beating my head against a wall.
In that case examine what you are doing wrong.
And ask yourself critical questions as: - Why can't I, even with all the gathered evidence, can't get my point across? - Is my evidence correct? - Do I have more than 1 independent source that correlates with my evidence?
etc.
Originally Posted by PG77 In that case examine what you are doing wrong.
And ask yourself critical questions as: - Why can't I, even with all the gathered evidence, can't get my point across? - Is my evidence correct? - Do I have more than 1 independent source that correlates with my evidence?
etc.
Five people left this job in two months. Would that be enough evidence?
Five people left this job in two months. Would that be enough evidence?
It depends if their leaving had anything to do with the problem.
When you go against people who have more resources than you, it becomes imperative that your evidence is 120% correct. And even then you might not win because corporations can stall for ages while you must find another way of income.
Sorry everyone. I am having one of those days where the devil is trying to get a hold of me and bring me down.
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If you cannot admit to yourself that you might be wrong you might have a real problem, because what started as a discussion will only end up in a shouting contest.
In that case examine what you are doing wrong.
And even then you might not win because corporations can stall for ages while you must find another way of income.
