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View Poll Results: Which city
Portland, OR 3 10.34%
Vancouver, WA 3 10.34%
St. Louis, MO 4 13.79%
Chicago, IL 15 51.72%
Philly, PA 7 24.14%
SLC, UT 4 13.79%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 29. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-07-2018, 06:26 PM
 
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Hello,

I'm looking to move this by August 2018. Ideally it'll be a city I can plant deep roots in and eventually buy a house within the next year or 2. I've done lots of research and have finally narrowed down the cities from 20 to 6 and would like input from those who have lived there for 3 or more years.

I have a bachelor's degree in social science and a minor in psychology. I have work experience as an executive assistant, an admin assistant, an office manager, a teacher, and a researcher.

I'm 31 and single, I share custody of my children with my ex-husband, and ideally would like a good balance of activities to do with the kids and by myself.

Would love;

* easy access to nature - I absolutely LOVE to hike, and fell in love with the mountains Vegas, Arizona, and Utah had to offer when I lived in Vegas.

*Good to excellent education system (escaping Vegas because of poor national ranking).

*Decent paying jobs (loved LA for this) with room for growth, ideally would like to start off making $50K. I do not wish to teach any more.

* Within 30 minutes from a major city (more likely to get a good paying position in a major city I'm guessing).

* Activities and events for families and singles.

* A welcoming/ friendly city. I found some of my closest friends in Vegas, they were from other parts of the country originally, but we all became each others family even though we met through meetup hiking sites. I'd like to build a community of friends for my kids and I.

*Excellent public transportation/walk-able (loved Paris and Rome for this), but I'm okay with buying a car if necessary.

*Active meetup groups or social groups (easier to meet people I'm guessing, just in case I don't at work).

*Bonus if close to a university, thinking of going to grad school for psychology.

*Able to get a 2 - 3 bedroom spot for $1,400 or less in a decent to great area (bonus if I can rent a house/duplex for the price as opposed to a condo or apartment)

Cities on my radar are;

Portland/Vancouver (it's a tie!) Heard great things about Washington school system, and love the access to nature, and Portland for the high possibility of obtaining work in the research field.

St. Louis seems to have great cost of living, and there seems to be job openings with good salaries. Family oriented with free museums and such.

Chicago has the sports culture that is somewhat exciting, job openings with good salaries, social groups and bars.

Salt Lake Cities easy access to nature, and close enough to national parks. Great cost of living, not sure about job openings and salary.

Philly seems to have lots to do for children and adults. Also seems to be moderately priced homes.

Please tell me if I am wrong about my assumptions, and your experience with living in these cities.

Thank you
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Old 05-08-2018, 09:50 AM
 
Location: East Coast
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I feel bad no one has answered...probably can’t go wrong with any of your choices, no place is permanent anyway if you don’t love it move on. This thread/poll is a little hard to answer because not many people have experience in all these cities at least not enough to give credible advice on them. I’ve been no help good luck tho!
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Old 05-08-2018, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Taipei
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I feel bad no one has answered...probably can’t go wrong with any of your choices, no place is permanent anyway if you don’t love it move on. This thread/poll is a little hard to answer because not many people have experience in all these cities at least not enough to give credible advice on them. I’ve been no help good luck tho!
This is true. I can only possibly compare CHI, PHL, STL, and PDX and really CHI is the only one I can claim to know somewhat well. Also my interests dont align that much with the OP so it's hard for me to offer too much insight.

For walkability and public transport, Chi and Philly are tops on this list and probably tops for any city given the housing budget. PDX is slightly below those but my impression is housing will be difficult. SLC and STL are probably ok but tough to truly go carless.

Good luck OP!
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Old 05-08-2018, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Salt Lake City
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Salt Lake Cities easy access to nature, and close enough to national parks. Great cost of living, not sure about job openings and salary.
I don't think the cost of living is quite as good as you may be thinking it is, but the job market is pretty good here.
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Old 05-08-2018, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Denver CO
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These places are literally all over the country - where is ex-husband? Shouldn't being in reasonable proximity to him be a factor, with shared custody? You may want to talk to your divorce attorney to discuss how travel expenses get paid if you move a plane ride away.
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Old 05-08-2018, 11:28 AM
 
Location: The Left Toast
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West Mt. Airy, Roxboro, East Falls,or Far Northeast sections of Philadelphia.
West Chester, Drexel Hill, King of Prussia, Phoenixville, Collegeville., cities outside of Philadelphia.
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Old 05-08-2018, 12:28 PM
 
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I feel bad no one has answered...probably can’t go wrong with any of your choices, no place is permanent anyway if you don’t love it move on. This thread/poll is a little hard to answer because not many people have experience in all these cities at least not enough to give credible advice on them. I’ve been no help good luck tho!
Haha, thank you! It seems I wasn't clear - no need to have lived in all 6! Just anyone of them for at least 3 years would be fine.

You are right, if it's not good I can always move, if it were just me I wouldn't mind, but feel a bit bad for my kiddos as one is in middle school and the other will be starting this Fall
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Old 05-08-2018, 12:29 PM
 
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I feel bad no one has answered...probably can’t go wrong with any of your choices, no place is permanent anyway if you don’t love it move on. This thread/poll is a little hard to answer because not many people have experience in all these cities at least not enough to give credible advice on them. I’ve been no help good luck tho!
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This is true. I can only possibly compare CHI, PHL, STL, and PDX and really CHI is the only one I can claim to know somewhat well. Also my interests dont align that much with the OP so it's hard for me to offer too much insight.

For walkability and public transport, Chi and Philly are tops on this list and probably tops for any city given the housing budget. PDX is slightly below those but my impression is housing will be difficult. SLC and STL are probably ok but tough to truly go carless.

Good luck OP!

Thank you! You've been helpful
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Old 05-08-2018, 12:31 PM
 
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I don't think the cost of living is quite as good as you may be thinking it is, but the job market is pretty good here.
Happy to hear the job market is good! I thought quite the opposite. Would $1,400 be too little to get a decent 2 or 3 bedroom in a safe enough area?
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Old 05-08-2018, 12:33 PM
 
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These places are literally all over the country - where is ex-husband? Shouldn't being in reasonable proximity to him be a factor, with shared custody? You may want to talk to your divorce attorney to discuss how travel expenses get paid if you move a plane ride away.
I have primary custody of them, not 50/50 I would like to be within an hour away from an airport, they fly to him for the summer and winter breaks only. We've already covered travel expenses (we've been divorced for 4 years )

Thanks for your input.
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