[Duchamp Dude]

Dude, that housing is a safe investment is 80s school of thought. Barring the uber-rich, many in FFC are sitting under negative equity.

[nep321]

Originally Posted by mlassoff

You have housing. You said you LOVE your apartment. I'm happy cause that's what I choose. I enjoy my life, my friend, my family. In about :45, I'm meeting my dad for a beer. Almost everyone in my town has a bigger/nicer home than mine. I just have a moderate condo. I can't afford a 1.5 million dollar house-- and I don't care.

The problem is you, Nep. If you come to realize that, things will get easier in a hurry.

I mean, the apartment itself is nice, yes. But I still want to move out of it when the lease expires in May. It's just way too noisy here. All I hear all the time are trucks, cars, beeping....it's nerve wracking.

[AntonioR]

Nep,

Eh, nevermind.

Nep is being Nep. That's all there is to this. He he

[nep321]

You all need to ask yourself, how you would feel if you were stuck living somewhere that you didn't really like? And would you attempt to leave at some point?

[Wilton2ParkAve]

Originally Posted by nep321

You all need to ask yourself, how you would feel if you were stuck living somewhere that you didn't really like? And would you attempt to leave at some point?

That should be the question at hand; however in your case it is not relevant as you are never happy or satisfied. There are none so blind as those that will not see.

[mag-nolia]

Originally Posted by nep321

You all need to ask yourself, how you would feel if you were stuck living somewhere that you didn't really like? And would you attempt to leave at some point?

I think you need to ask yourself, how many times have you been right so far, on this roller coaster of a journey?

Not many.

Maybe it's time to start listening to the wisdom of others...unless of course you want to stay on this merry-go-round of always having something that needs to be changed. You're always scrambling to fix something, or change a circumstance...but still always setting yourself up for the next struggle. You can never just be still. That, nep, is a sign of something much bigger underneath the surface. And I hope you will find the help for that.

[AntonioR]

Originally Posted by nep321

You all need to ask yourself, how you would feel if you were stuck living somewhere that you didn't really like? And would you attempt to leave at some point?

I said it before and I will say it again, you need to hook up with someone and that will make everything else tolerable. But this is assuming they can put up with your whining. Eh, who knows, there probably is someone for everyone out there.

[trishguard]

Originally Posted by SeaDoo342

I just read all of neps threads on this forum and have come to the conclusion that he is no longer the problem here. YOU ARE. Stop responding to his threads and giving him the attention he is seeking. And if you respond, don't complain about him because you're now the problem.

I enjoy nep's threads. He's a strange and yet interesting personality.

[nep321]

Originally Posted by meg31816

I think you need to ask yourself, how many times have you been right so far, on this roller coaster of a journey?

Not many.

Maybe it's time to start listening to the wisdom of others...unless of course you want to stay on this merry-go-round of always having something that needs to be changed. You're always scrambling to fix something, or change a circumstance...but still always setting yourself up for the next struggle. You can never just be still. That, nep, is a sign of something much bigger underneath the surface. And I hope you will find the help for that.

Okay....so then how do I find the help for that, if you say that's the problem?

[nep321]

Originally Posted by mlassoff

You have housing. You said you LOVE your apartment. I'm happy cause that's what I choose. I enjoy my life, my friend, my family. In about :45, I'm meeting my dad for a beer. Almost everyone in my town has a bigger/nicer home than mine. I just have a moderate condo. I can't afford a 1.5 million dollar house-- and I don't care.

The problem is you, Nep. If you come to realize that, things will get easier in a hurry.

Plus, I think you're being a bit of a hypocrite. Wasn't it you who was originally from FFC, then moved to Vernon for a while, didn't like it, and ended up moving back to Westport? Yet for me, you're advising me against moving back to my home metro area.