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Old 09-30-2015, 04:44 PM
 
Location: Southern New Hampshire
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Bride Sends $75 Bill to a Guest Who Had to Cancel on Her Wedding at the Last Minute

I am curious as to what others think about this. I think it's rude of the bride & groom to bill the no-show guest, but JUST as rude for the guest not to let them know she (and apparently a plus-one) couldn't go.

The last line says: "Jessica [the no-show] told the news organization she has no plans to pay [the bill]" ... but Jessica also didn't say why she didn't do something as simple as letting the bride and groom know that she couldn't be there. A simple email or phone call would have done the job. (Yes, I know it would have been on the couple's wedding day and they would have obviously been busy, but SOMEONE would have gotten the message.)

(Of course this is why if my SO and I get married it will be in my big, beautiful back yard with a few close friends and family members ... and any leftovers will go home with the guests! )
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Old 09-30-2015, 04:46 PM
 
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Lol no. Not ok. Weddings are a joke these days for thr majority anyway. Give me 5 kegs and a tent.
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Old 09-30-2015, 04:48 PM
 
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Such a classy move.
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Old 09-30-2015, 04:53 PM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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If you can't afford an elaborate wedding then don't try to have one. Why would anyone think of billing a guest?
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Old 09-30-2015, 04:54 PM
 
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Bloody freaking idiotic! The wedding lalapalooza mentality is just freaking out of control.
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Old 09-30-2015, 05:01 PM
 
Location: My beloved Bluegrass
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People sure have lost sight of what a wedding is supposed to be about.
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Old 09-30-2015, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Southern New Hampshire
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Honestly, I'm a bit surprised at the responses so far. Yes, the bride was rude ... but you don't think the guest was, too? Why couldn't she just make a quick phone call or send a quick text when she found out she couldn't make it?

I also find it incredibly rude (and hostile) to share the experience with the world, as the guest did.

(I wish social media didn't exist!! Oh wait, does C-D count? )
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Old 09-30-2015, 05:35 PM
 
Location: Minnesota
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Every such invitation includes a very clear request: RSVP … with a specific request for a number: how many will be coming to dinner …

Invited guests who replied that they will attend, but don't … are thoughtless jerks …
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Old 09-30-2015, 05:52 PM
 
Location: MMU->ABE->ATL->ASH
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A guess Wedding, Birthday Parties, etc.

Will need to be Overbooked to account for No-Shows now. Last ones to venue, get bumped..
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Old 09-30-2015, 05:54 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Originally Posted by karen_in_nh_2012 View Post
Honestly, I'm a bit surprised at the responses so far. Yes, the bride was rude ... but you don't think the guest was, too?
It's a wedding, not the end of the world and it's not like marriage is special or anything.
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