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Originally Posted by kletter1mann
Wow, lots of stuff here. Interesting, thanks. See below....
1. Bark is very deep and focus seems strong
2. He tries to get between us and stranger, but we hold his collar, which he accepts. He doesn't lunge, but he certainly doesn't back off..
3. Haven't noticed, but i think it's high. He stands taller too. I'll pay attention.
4. Nothing remotely like this has ever happened.
5. By that measure he's not kidding, but we don't let him loose to charge. We tell the person he just wants to check them out and let him go. When he gets to the person he stops and sniffs and it's over. He is now immediatley in friendly mode if the person is somebody that likes large dogs (at worst he's indifferent, but never aggressive).
6. He never, ever does that, not even close. I wouldn't even know what you meant except that my brother's Golden retriever does exactly that.
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Ahhh ok. So yeah, he sound's like it's just habit. But the hair standing up is the only slight concern. I mean, really you'd think by ten years old he'd be getting the POINT that people come and GO through doors.
Chaos at the door is a bit more tricky to read as a pet sitter but this is what I do. I try and get the owner away from the dog so I can focus on the DOG's true self.
Of course we're assuming they claim the dog is not a biter or they say "WELL, we always put him away when people come in." (red flag)
When I do a dog walking/pet sitting Meet and Greet with a new client I ask them to NOT influence the dog and just let them BE. Don't talk to them, don't hold their collar, don't talk to ME in an excited high voice. JUST OPEN THE DOOR AND GO SIT DOWN.
This is because I have to walk in there alone when they go away and MY method is the quickest way to get to know the dog. AND by watching the interaction with the owner.
Without FAIL the clingy owners just cannot follow my instructions hahaha.
Anyway, your energy holding that collar is going down to him. Of that I am SURE. It's why people have problems on walks when they see a human or another dog being walked and they inadvertently tense up and the dog feels it and reacts in kind.
If I wanted to learn about your dog I would ask you to open the door and do nothing and let HIM do his thing.
I would just stand there doing nothing for a minute and expect him to sniff me and either turn and walk away OR in some cases especially like a LAB start nosing me and intruding on my personal space.
I don't speak, give eye contact or touch them.
I want to see how they react. Do they go hide? Do they go cling to the owner? Do they keep trying to get my attention like I'm the quarterback in the high school ignoring all the girls" (that's what I'm going for!). Do they bring me a toy? etc etc...
If I can determine they're not going to bite me I just walk right PAST or THROUGH them. It really all depends. If I have to, I tell the owner to LEASH them and walk them over to their bed or something. That's for the ones that say, have HAIR STANDING UP! LOL
After I go sit down I STILL ignore the dog. (usually unless they're really funny or something).I want to go through my M&G process and speak with the owner and still WATCH the dog out of the corner of my eye. Especially if there are more than one. THEN at the END I interact with the dog(s).
My ex used to rehab last chance GSD dogs and THEY are in their own category - the unbalanced ones who aren't rehab'd yet. They usually stand RIGHT THERE calmly and stealthy and WAIT. Sort of a DARE. "Oh ok, you just TRY getting past ME". My BF used to "release" the "normal"ones and tell them to "go to your place".
SO, you holding the collar is a message to his brain; you're CONFIRMING that there's an "issue" with someone coming in. Also HOLDING a dog BACK creates HIM going FORWARD.
If I were you, I would just stand right in front of him blocking...and DIRECT him with my body language and energy or one word. A few feet BACK from that door.
YOU OWN THAT FOYER NOT HIM. (if you care) Some people put a broom down to mark where they have to stop. A reminder to the HUMAN because the dog will GET IT after you keep doing it and FOLLOWING THROUGH until he relaxes where you want him. THEY UNDERSTAND ENERGY.
IF he gets between you and the guest AFTER THE GREETING...like when you say, walk into the kitchen, that's a SIGNAL he feels he has to protect you. CIRCLING the guest is BAD. It doesn't sound like your dog does either of these things. BUT maybe WATCH.
Does he sit between you and the guest in the living room? For example. If so, I would NOT approach
you.
Yeah, #6 is confusing. I meant a dominant dog (one who is confident and wants to control his surroundings or is going to BITE)....will keep GOING FORWARD even if I step forward towards him. He should NOT do that. It's considered disrespectful in dog language. he should always YIELD to the human. Even a kid.
A submissive dog who is nervous bluffing will walk backwards when I walk forwards towards them. So your brother's Golden is submissive.
Either scenario can cause a bite in an unstable dog. (Me walking forwards.) The IDEAL balance is for the dog to TURN away and chill when I walk FORWARD. Perhaps walk WITH me but not be annoying or trying to intimidate me.
SO, even though your dog is not a red zone case as far as we know he hasn't been TESTED to see if he will simply let the person walk in and go about their business.
If you care, you can put him 6 feet from the door and start new rules. NO charging the door. You WAIT calmly for the person to get inside and WE GIVE YOU PERMISSION to sniff. You must do it as many times as it takes and be CONSISTENT. Because if YOU step BACK or he passes you you LOSE POINTS.
NEVER STEP BACK! Not even on one foot hahaha.
A sniff is NOT an invitation to pet. I walk in and IGNORE. I go sit down.
NOW,if I think I'm gonna get bit , NO. LOL I'm pretty good at reading that body language and the human's too.
They will also maybe nail me when I try and leave. The unstable ones. I decline those jobs especially mostly because the PEOPLE won't cooperate in ways to desensitize the dog to me. Those are the unstable OWNERS LOL.
I don't want to tell you to just let him loose on his own and have people walk IN because we have no idea really AND because the PEOPLE may convey UNSTABLE energy or fear.
I could walk in...but I know how to act and react...unlike, say some workman or some lady delivering pizza LOL. OK, well he'd probably like the pizza delivery.
I totally believe he's never remotely done that snap to passing people. But I HAVE seen it happen as they get older and grouchy. Even my own Bulldog in his sleep would get all growly and bite the air around my feet if I annoyed him laying on the sofa...who would never bite a soul in his entire life LOL.
But a more serious case, a Rot dog friend of mine bit his girlfriend's lip half off once when she leaned over to kiss the guy and the dog was sleeping on the sofa next to him.
Thanks for the brain teaser, I love trying to LEARN from all dogs.