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Old 02-15-2020, 05:08 PM
 
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What four year olds should know

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She should know that she is loved wholly and unconditionally, all of the time.

What parents should know

That the single biggest predictor of high academic achievement and high ACT scores is reading to children. Not flash cards, not workbooks, not fancy preschools, not blinking toys or computers, but Mom or Dad taking the time every day or night (or both!) to sit and read them wonderful books.

The rest of the article is great too.
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Old 06-23-2020, 01:48 AM
 
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Absolutely true, everything in the article, and empathy.

Helicoptering kids inadvertently teach them a lack of will-power.

Parents teach what they assume to know what's best.

Growth of a child's potential mirrors to a large extent, how much parents believe in themselves.

If kids see that their parents are constantly making efforts to grow and self-improve, so will the child.
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Old 06-23-2020, 08:55 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Yes, reading to children captures their imaginations and fosters a love of books and reading.

It's one of a parent's most important duties in child rearing.

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Old 06-23-2020, 09:29 AM
 
Location: We_tside PNW (Columbia Gorge) / CO / SA TX / Thailand
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When we volunteered at Public schools (as a home school family), many of the students were amazed our kids could read to them 'in-character" ( animated / dramatic / interpretive).

Most kids said their parents / grandparent or siblings would (could) not read to them.

Another reason we had no TV... but used radio / radio drama as a training tool. (Stimulates the imagination & creative thought).

Sad... is our current public library hours are significantly reduced (when they SHOULD be significantly expanded during Covid)

Sad II... seldom are families / kids found in our library (TX at the moment), mostly homeless people looking for air con and a free toilet.
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Old 06-23-2020, 02:22 PM
 
Location: 0.83 Atmospheres
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Stealth’s kids designed their own homes, skinned live buffalos, and spoke 7 languages by the time they were 4. You all are slacking.
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Old 06-24-2020, 05:48 PM
 
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What four year olds should know

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/what-...EcXRDaqjPTdtsI

She should know that she is loved wholly and unconditionally, all of the time.

What parents should know

That the single biggest predictor of high academic achievement and high ACT scores is reading to children. Not flash cards, not workbooks, not fancy preschools, not blinking toys or computers, but Mom or Dad taking the time every day or night (or both!) to sit and read them wonderful books.

The rest of the article is great too.
I agree with the article even as a parent of kids that went to what some may consider fancy pre-schools.
At the risk of of being argumentative however, I think the reading to a child = high achievement correllation is a bit overblown. Its seems more like a cultural fact vs a scientific one. There are entire continents of kids that are raised listening to stories told by elders that often can’t read. Many of these kids crack open a book for the first time at school age.Those same kids immigrate here and a disproportionate number become high achievers.

It could be argued that the correlation between “reading” to kids and those kids doing well is due to the fact that smarter/ well off people are more likely to have books at home ergo their kids are more likely to do well. However, hearing adults tell stories, in spite of how those stories are delivered, enriches children’s imaginations and vocabulary to a measurable extent.

I think the advice should be tell children tall tales. Those with books should read, those without should orate. The benefit of their vocabulary and the spark of imagination is what matters.
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Old 06-26-2020, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Plano, TX
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There are different formulas for "success". I never took the ACT but was a National Merit Semi-Finalist. I actually wasn't really read to, but I was brought up in a very pro-education environment. I literally spent hundreds, if not thousands of dollars a year as a kid on books (my dad would just give me money if I said I was going to use it for books).
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Old 06-28-2020, 07:30 PM
 
Location: midwest
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My mother taught me to read when I was 3 years old. When you're a kid whatever is going on you think is normal. In retrospect it seems odd that there was no recommended reading list for K-12.

But school was a bore. David & Ann books were ridiculous.

There should be plenty of reading programs for Android tablets by now.
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Old 06-29-2020, 04:08 PM
 
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My mother taught me to read when I was 3 years old. When you're a kid whatever is going on you think is normal. In retrospect it seems odd that there was no recommended reading list for K-12.

But school was a bore. David & Ann books were ridiculous.

There should be plenty of reading programs for Android tablets by now.
David and Ann books? Is that the Catholic equivalent of Dick and Jane books?
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Old 06-29-2020, 10:27 PM
 
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Above all, I would say a healthy environment in which to raise a kid.
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