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Old 08-10-2010, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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I'm "secure" but it has nothing to do with my chest size, and everything to do with what goes on between my ears.
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Old 08-10-2010, 05:27 PM
 
Location: Retirementland
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This is actually an emotional issue on both ends. Men are biologically attracted to large breasts. That's why girls when the get to mating age their breasts expand as part of the process of natural selection. Men are not making intellectual decisions about this.
I don't know what biology class you were in, but I'm pretty certain that women don't have breasts because men like them. Men like large breasts because it's a sign of fertility.

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I'll repeat what I said above. No one likes small breasts except the henpecked husbands of women who have them and lesbians. But, you will find someone that loves you regardless of your breast size just like you would find someone who loves you if you are short or tall or bald.
There's a lot of guys that like small breasts, it's where the saying "more than a handful is a waste" came from. Hell, there's a boatload of porn out there aimed at those guys, and no, they aren't pedophiles.
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Old 08-10-2010, 05:48 PM
YAZ
 
Location: Phoenix,AZ
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I have two rules:

1. Little boobs?

Better have a little butt.

2. Big butt?

Better have some big boobs.

Carry on......
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Old 08-10-2010, 05:51 PM
 
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I don't know what biology class you were in, but I'm pretty certain that women don't have breasts because men like them. Men like large breasts because it's a sign of fertility.

No they don't. They like them because its a sign of a matable female who has hormones causing her to be open to mating. That's natural selection. But its not politically correct for your biology teacher to have said that teen girls with emerging breasts are hot to trot.

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There's a lot of guys that like small breasts, it's where the saying "more than a handful is a waste" came from. Hell, there's a boatload of porn out there aimed at those guys, and no, they aren't pedophiles.
No there are not. Men who are attracted to small breasts are sublimating pedophilia. And, a handful is not small.
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Old 08-10-2010, 05:57 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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Men who are attracted to small breasts are sublimating pedophilia.
I call BS on this.
Please provide credible proof to support this statement, otherwise, you're just trolling for lulz.
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Old 08-10-2010, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Retirementland
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No they don't. They like them because its a sign of a matable female who has hormones causing her to be open to mating. That's natural selection. But its not politically correct for your biology teacher to have said that teen girls with emerging breasts are hot to trot.
I don't think you understand what natural selection is, and when did political correctness enter the conversation here?



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No there are not. Men who are attracted to small breasts are sublimating pedophilia. And, a handful is not small.
You go tell women with smaller breasts that they look like children and that whatever man might love them must be a closet pedophile. Go on, I'll wait.

A handful is generally a B or C, depending on the size of one's hands (though with a C, one's hands must be pretty big). The average breast size in America is either a B or a C. Large breasts, then, would be starting at either a C or a D, making a handful or less small.
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Old 08-10-2010, 06:11 PM
 
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I think I did not give this problem the proper respect.

This is actually an emotional issue on both ends. Men are biologically attracted to large breasts. That's why girls when the get to mating age their breasts expand as part of the process of natural selection. Men are not making intellectual decisions about this.

And, you are not making intellectual decisions about it either. You express lack of self esteem yet you have had strangers poring over your breast (figuratively) for 20 pages of posts. If you were thinking about this intellectually, you would have just got the +2's and called it a day. But, you have engaged in an emotional exercise also.

I'll repeat what I said above. No one likes small breasts except the henpecked husbands of women who have them and lesbians. But, you will find someone that loves you regardless of your breast size just like you would find someone who loves you if you are short or tall or bald.
believe it or not, there are some men out there who just like women, for whatever size and shape they come in.

Some men I know do not like big fake boobs bouncing around all over the place. They prefer real women, even if that means they're naturally small.
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Old 08-10-2010, 06:20 PM
 
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believe it or not, there are some men out there who just like women, for whatever size and shape they come in.

Some men I know do not like big fake boobs bouncing around all over the place. They prefer real women, even if that means they're naturally small.

Absolutely! That's the point I was trying to make. The OP is quite fixated on her own boobs. Men care about boobs. But, men like me care more about other things like trust and commonality of interest, and intelligent conversation and compatibility, mutual respect, etc. Boobs are not even on my top 10 list. But I've been around a long time. And, when the subject comes up, men like bigger up to a point. Boobs come and go, but cannot substitute for what is really important.
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Old 08-10-2010, 06:28 PM
 
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I don't think you understand what natural selection is, and when did political correctness enter the conversation here?
When you mistakenly conflated the concepts of fertility perception with finding a female exhibiting mating availability and then placed the blame on your or my high school biology teacher.

You see, men are not attracted to breasts due to a perception of fertility as you wrongly stated. Men are attracted to breasts because they identify a female who has the hormones for mating. Hahaha. If fertility was the issue, the elder ladies with huge pendulous breasts demonstrating proven fertility would be attracting males. You probably stopped your education at high school biology.
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Old 08-10-2010, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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When you mistakenly conflated the concepts of fertility perception with finding a female exhibiting mating availability and then placed the blame on your or my high school biology teacher.

You see, men are not attracted to breasts due to a perception of fertility as you wrongly stated. Men are attracted to breasts because they identify a female who has the hormones for mating. Hahaha. If fertility was the issue, the elder ladies with huge pendulous breasts demonstrating proven fertility would be attracting males. You probably stopped your education at high school biology.
No, you have it all wrong here........she never said ANYTHING about what is bolded in your post.
And why are you being snarky about her level of education?
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