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emi_ Well I am not as articulate as Wilson, so would have a real hard time arguing his points, but some gals will dress to enhance and with body lanuage use their breasts to do some of that talking.
Guys are guys and we like the female form and or the French Curve a tool like ruler. This shows in older antique furniture in some ways mimicing the female form. This shows in cars like any corvett, the shelby cobra, the MGA, the Austin Healy B 100 and 3000, and dozens more cars with female hips!
To a guy a gal in a deep v plunging top is saying HI WANNA PLAY, and yet not a word it uttered.
To a guy a gal in a victorian dress buttoned to the chin is saying take a hike pal, still no words out loud.
More in the middle a gal in snug jeans a mans button collar shirt covered in paint from re-modling her apt might have that neck button done up and or she might have half the buttons open.
One way means she is all about work and to leave her alone, the other means she doesn't care so much for the work and wants to play at the same time.
The way you dress, the way you move all says something to a guy whether or not he knows it.
AuburnAl, Thanks for the detail. The Tramp Stamp is not in my generation. My sons wife has that and i wonder, but never ask.
Women definitely send messages through the way they dress and present themselves, but that still does not mean that a woman develops large breasts as a makeshift "vacancy" sign.
emi_ Well I am not as articulate as Wilson, so would have a real hard time arguing his points, but some gals will dress to enhance and with body lanuage use their breasts to do some of that talking.
Guys are guys and we like the female form and or the French Curve a tool like ruler. This shows in older antique furniture in some ways mimicing the female form. This shows in cars like any corvett, the shelby cobra, the MGA, the Austin Healy B 100 and 3000, and dozens more cars with female hips!
To a guy a gal in a deep v plunging top is saying HI WANNA PLAY, and yet not a word it uttered.
To a guy a gal in a victorian dress buttoned to the chin is saying take a hike pal, still no words out loud.
More in the middle a gal in snug jeans a mans button collar shirt covered in paint from re-modling her apt might have that neck button done up and or she might have half the buttons open.
One way means she is all about work and to leave her alone, the other means she doesn't care so much for the work and wants to play at the same time.
The way you dress, the way you move all says something to a guy whether or not he knows it.
AuburnAl, Thanks for the detail. The Tramp Stamp is not in my generation. My sons wife has that and i wonder, but never ask.
But what about us who don't have much breasts but still want to play? I wear tight clothes yet I still got that comment about looking "asexual". I'm not stupid enough to wear a low cut top because I'd look ridiculous. Doesn't mean I'm asexual, though! =/
I wish I was asexual, though. Or had Asperger's or whatever would make me not have emotions towards other people, just so that I wouldn't want to be with men. It's disheartening to realize you can't ever please one guy completely. I'm not up for that. I don't want to get married. If I get married, I won't have a choice in aging, and there will always be hotter 20 year olds. I can't deal with that. I can't deal with just being wanted around because I'm caring, kind and a good housewife, that's not enough for me, I want to be the most beautiful in his eyes too, but that seems impossible. I don't want to get married and have my husband check out my son's wife's or girlfriend's ass or boobs.
B-C = small ???
that's me and I've never been called small. granted I've never been told they're big either
They are not small. The only reason they are is because plastic surgery raised the average. I would say B is average and C is big. D bigger, and so on.
What if she has shiny hair, perfect teeth, big breasts, whatever, and she's a nun? Or very religious, or very monogamous and married? She didn't choose to look that way and just because she does it doesn't say "I want to mate with you".
Otherwise it'd be much easier for men to pick up hot chicks and get laid, but when has that been really easy for them?
And stop saying that small breasts are unlikeable I find that offensive.
LOL. Now just when was the last time you saw a hot Nun?
That easy thing was pretty easy for me as a lad. That time was about love the one your with. If I were not very married it would still be as easy almost now. I am nearly blind to a female come on, so when I see one come on I really know it, and it still happens. I look younger than I really am by so many years, I don't know what that is really but people say so when they see me and understand I will be 59 soon.
I appear taller since I am thin, and I am tanned. I have all my hair and pony tail. For some thread some where last week my wife measured my pony tail and came up with 18 inches. On my bike I wear black leather and look scarey, but gals like that criminal look. I am a bad boy to them. I can still wear a leather belt I had in high school, and dress in a similar mannor jeans tall boots, and a button shirt.
Am I perfect? no, do I worry about what I can't change ? no Do gals I see that don't know I am married hit on me and flirt around ? yeah and a lot.
But what about us who don't have much breasts but still want to play? I wear tight clothes yet I still got that comment about looking "asexual". I'm not stupid enough to wear a low cut top because I'd look ridiculous. Doesn't mean I'm asexual, though! =/
I wish I was asexual, though. Or had Asperger's or whatever would make me not have emotions towards other people, just so that I wouldn't want to be with men. It's disheartening to realize you can't ever please one guy completely. I'm not up for that. I don't want to get married. If I get married, I won't have a choice in aging, and there will always be hotter 20 year olds. I can't deal with that. I can't deal with just being wanted around because I'm caring, kind and a good housewife, that's not enough for me, I want to be the most beautiful in his eyes too, but that seems impossible. I don't want to get married and have my husband check out my son's wife's or girlfriend's ass or boobs.
I'm not up for that. I give up.
WTH is wrong with you?!!! You have serious problems and I recommend you go into therapy.
You WISH you were asexual or had Asperger's? You don't know what you're talking about. I am a 40 year old married woman with a son with Asperger's. At 40, I will never look 20 again, but that doesn't have me wishing the world away and hiding in some cave. Heck, I point out beautiful young women to my husband all the time and as long as we love and respect each other, I know that he wouldn't trade me in for one of them, not for bigger breasts, smaller breasts or a whole dang T!T!e fest!!!!
I think you guys are getting a little bent out of shape. I don't agree with the comment that men attracted to small breasts are potential pedophiles..geeze, that's not true at all for most men. Some men don't care about breast size. However, there are a few creeps out there...anyway.
Breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic that are there to attract men to women, yes, for mating. Lets not forget that they are there to feed a baby too, lol.
I think that some men have different taste but in my experience they all like boobs, well unless they are batting for the other side.
To the OP, you have a choice...live and accept who you are, or take the risk that comes with getting implants. It's not a walk in the park. Even movie stars have had issues and once you get them you have to go in every 5-10 years for maintenance. Not to mention the risk for infection, death, or illness.
So get on with it. I'm not trying to be mean but complaining and whining about how life is not fair will not change the fact that most men are boob crazy.
It's disheartening to realize you can't ever please one guy completely. I'm not up for that.
Your posts show you can't even please yourself completely. There's nothing wrong with that. Normal people can't. So given that you can't please yourself completely it's impossible that you can please someone else completely. You could do everything some dude asked you to do, and he'd still not be completely pleased. People are like that.
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If I get married, I won't have a choice in aging, and there will always be hotter 20 year olds.
This will be happen even if you're single so why miss out on marriage?
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I can't deal with just being wanted around because I'm caring, kind and a good housewife, that's not enough for me, I want to be the most beautiful in his eyes too, but that seems impossible.
I'll tell you right now there will be women physically attractive enough that your husband would rather be with them than you, and no matter how devoted you think you'll be there'll be guys you'll be attracted to enough that you'd rather be with them than your husband too. Fortunately neither of you will probably ever meet these folks unless you become famous enough that folks are throwing themselves at each of you constantly. If either of you are ever tempted to cheat though hopefully you emotions for each other will be strong enough to overcome any fleeting physical attraction you might feel for someone else, and if not then he didn't deserve you anyways.
I hope I didn't come off too harsh, but you seem like a great woman. You need to get over this because you don't deserve to let something this trivial ruin your life, and it is trivial. I promise you that at your funeral tons of things will be said about you, and not one of them will have to do with the size of your breasts. If you can't overcome this on your own maybe you should seek out a professional because this seems like it could become a crippling problem for you if you let it continue to eat at you.
Well, well, well, I see you're all still here. Good. And you have been talking among yourselves. Good, good, except for the mistatments about my earlier posts. Thanks Mac for holding down the fort under blistering attack of the she devils. /sarc
Seriously, ladies, I'm a real guy's guy. In my 60's, I am the confessor to a couple of generations of men who I either represent or are my friends. I stand by my friends. I never ever went out with a girl who one of my friends dated or even wanted to date. If a girl cheated on one of my friends I would never speak another word to her, ever. Even if she was justified. I probably arranged 30 bachelor parties. And I have had a lot of relationships with some very exciting and talented women, the best of which is my wife who is a bombshell, highly successful painter of religious art and 22 years my junior. I have been a very lucky man.
And, I have stopped by this little watering hole to tell you the honest truth as I know it. But what do I encounter? Its like a den of man hating lesbians. Don't you ladies want to learn something from a guy who knows? I guess not. We have one gal who thinks men are attracted to women because of "fertility." Another who wants me to admit that normal guys like small breasts. One that baits and insults like it was her full time job.
And, did I post this?
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Absolutely! That's the point I was trying to make. The OP is quite fixated on her own boobs. Men care about boobs. But, men like me care more about other things like trust and commonality of interest, and intelligent conversation and compatibility, mutual respect, etc. Boobs are not even on my top 10 list. But I've been around a long time. And, when the subject comes up, men like bigger up to a point. Boobs come and go, but cannot substitute for what is really important.
I think you should just say thank you and re-read my posts above.
LOL. Now just when was the last time you saw a hot Nun?
That easy thing was pretty easy for me as a lad. That time was about love the one your with. If I were not very married it would still be as easy almost now. I am nearly blind to a female come on, so when I see one come on I really know it, and it still happens. I look younger than I really am by so many years, I don't know what that is really but people say so when they see me and understand I will be 59 soon.
I appear taller since I am thin, and I am tanned. I have all my hair and pony tail. For some thread some where last week my wife measured my pony tail and came up with 18 inches. On my bike I wear black leather and look scarey, but gals like that criminal look. I am a bad boy to them. I can still wear a leather belt I had in high school, and dress in a similar mannor jeans tall boots, and a button shirt.
Am I perfect? no, do I worry about what I can't change ? no Do gals I see that don't know I am married hit on me and flirt around ? yeah and a lot.
You missed my point. The thing is, just because a woman is attractive, doesn't mean she's an easy lay. Just because I'm apparently less attractive and look asexual because I have small breasts does not mean I dislike sex or that I am less available and even for that matter, less fertile.
Physical appearance has nothing to do with availability. It does signal sexual maturity and 'ability', yes, I'm not gonna argue against that. Yes, physical appearance signals that you are indeed a human in sexual age. Let's not even put fertility into this.
What appearance, by itself (not how you dress) DOESN'T signal is that you're available or wanting sex. Otherwise men would go on raping hot women. Or guys would only hook up with hot women. Because hot women would be the most available, and that's often not the case.
But what about us who don't have much breasts but still want to play? I wear tight clothes yet I still got that comment about looking "asexual". I'm not stupid enough to wear a low cut top because I'd look ridiculous. Doesn't mean I'm asexual, though! =/
I wish I was asexual, though. Or had Asperger's or whatever would make me not have emotions towards other people, just so that I wouldn't want to be with men. It's disheartening to realize you can't ever please one guy completely. I'm not up for that. I don't want to get married. If I get married, I won't have a choice in aging, and there will always be hotter 20 year olds. I can't deal with that. I can't deal with just being wanted around because I'm caring, kind and a good housewife, that's not enough for me, I want to be the most beautiful in his eyes too, but that seems impossible. I don't want to get married and have my husband check out my son's wife's or girlfriend's ass or boobs.
I'm not up for that. I give up.
No offense meant, but you have some serious issues going on. Feeling that way isn't healthy.
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