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Well then, the solution for small guys is to date small girls. By small, I mean short girls who are petite all over. They will generally have smaller sized vaginas. Women with small vaginas can't take a big penis without it hurting like hell. I've known of couples who've loved each other very much but had bad sex because he was too big for her, and it hurt her.
Women's vaginas also have different sizes so there's someone out there for everybody. But anyway, penises are concealed, so it's very different than breasts.
Actually the vagina can adapt.A baby's head comes out of there. The other part can not. LOL
I always thought that was one of those funny medical facts.
Just because its in pant's does not mean its concealed.
Not to get into TMI but give a smooch and there you go, you know what is what. LOL
After so many years being with someone with large breasts, it would be nice to try something different. It's like having pizza every day for dinner... Variety is the spice of life. Right?!
Actually the vagina can adapt.A baby's head comes out of there. The other part can not. LOL
I always thought that was one of those funny medical facts.
Just because its in pant's does not mean its concealed.
Not to get into TMI but give a smooch and there you go, you know what is what. LOL
But boobs are more out there than penises, in the sense that you don't even need to kiss another person to find out their size. Of course one can fake size by wearing padded bras or push up bras or whatever. But I'm not that kind of girl. I hate faking size.
I still think it's not comparable. Plus I don't think ALL women want a big penis, so what if the vagina is elastic. I mean, I've read it too. Some women have problems with penetration because their vagina is too small. So a baby can come out, whatever. Doesn't mean it's not painful just because it's elastic. The same can happen with a big penis.
I for one don't care about penis size. By the time I get to see the penis I'm probably really into the guy for many other reasons to care about size, actually. I'm not a one-night stand kind of girl.
Not the same with breasts, since it's one of the body parts guys first scan, and they can easily see whether it's big or small. And for the life of me, I don't get why if they are able to do that, some big boob guys, like my ex, end up wasting my time. I need a guy who thinks my body type is ideal. Otherwise I feel like a friend. He might love me, whatever, it feels more like a friend than a sexy girlfriend.
What exactly is big? People talk just about bra size but the way you are shaped plays a huge role, imo. For example, a short petite woman is going to look larger with a C cup size than a woman who is muscular, and 5' 8".
For me, big is like D and above. I'm like 5'7, 125 lbs. I'm an A cup. I have huge hips, and a small waist. I think I look a bit disproportionate. No matter how skinny I get. My lower body looks HUGE. I don't care what they say about it. It makes me feel fat. I can't wear certain things, especially bikinis are a hassle, because everything draws attention to my unfortunate hips and thighs. I feel bigger breasts not only would attract more male attention, they'd also make me look more balanced.
In my opinion plastic surgery changed what size is normal and what is big.
If you are 5'7" and 125 you are not huge at all. I think you most likely have a distorted body image. I bet a heavy set short woman with natural D's would love to have your figure. I had a friend who was huge and she had a breast reduction she hated it so much. I guess the grass is greener on the other side.
Well, us men have our individual "ideals" about what we like in women. I think most of us are realistic enough to realize what we think are perfect physical features don't always result in finding someone with perfect personality and mental characteristics. However, some never grow up and continue to drool all over themselves every time they see a woman with big boobs.
Myself, I prefer lighter complexions. Blonde, dark blonde, light brown hair, blue or grey eyes, maybe around 5'5" - 5'8", but not to particular on the height as long as they aren't midgets. Small to average boobs, thin to average weight. With all that said, there is more than physical features that makes one attractive, and most people aren't going to dismiss someone for having brown eyes because they like blue eyes, if the personality is right.
I don't care for wide bottoms, but I have a friend that goes nuts every time he sees a woman with a big butt and wide hips. We are talking, "baby got back" wide. He actually prefers them a little chubby too.
And many people say they like certain features because it is a social agreement to do so.
Zavijah,I hear you about the boob thing! Women and men are exposed to countless images of big, usually fake boobs in various commericals, ad campaigns etc. Sometimes i find this comical and annoying at the sametime!
I'm 5'7 like you,and am not small chested,but i'm not busty by any means. Most of my friends are D cups, and frankly, i would not want to lug that around lol. Huge implants, in particular, on small women look cheesy and cheap. Some also, look so extreme that they could be participants in a freakshow lol.
Don't let the medias brainwashing affect you. Most guys i know are just happy to get layed!
Walrus have a happier time than me trying to "work around" enormous globes of fat.
Small and medium is in; large is great to look at but somewhat impractical in the real world.
Who you are is not in your boobs.
So I was reading a thread here last night, which stated why women want big boobs. Granted, as a small chested girl (A cup) I have many times wanted big breasts. And yes, mostly it has been because of men. I admit it; if I ever got implants (which I don't think I'll ever get), it wouldn't be because of me, it would be because I'd like more men to think I'm hot. Let's face it? Who doesn't want to be a 10 in the other gender's eyes?
I don't know, I think my breasts are my biggest insecurity. And I don't even have much to worry about, really, 'cause I look quite feminine: I'm slim, I have long hair, I have feminine facial features, a small waist and wide hips. You could not mistake me for a man even if I dressed like one. I'm really fertile like the doc said. I'm really healthy. So why the Hell do I feel insecure?
Are big breasts really THAT much better? I mean obviously not that important since I had a boyfriend. But he liked big breasts better too. Why? It's just extra tissue, nothing else. And nothing that I can control. So why do I have to put up with guys drooling over what I don't have? It doesn't feel nice. Then they say they dislike implants. So what's left for me? What are my options?
Is it seriously a flaw? Because men like my ex boyfriend said, are always like "Well, I can overlook that. I like your other features", or "The ass has to make up for it". Why does something else have to "make up for it"?
Why me, anyway? I'm the least superficial girl I know. Of course I have standards, but I'm not picky when it comes to looks. So what the hell happened to my karma? Why do I always end up with men who settle for my boobs? I don't want that! I want someone to want me, to want my small boobs and to think they're freakin' perfect!
Plus with all the porn, beer ads and everything, is it any wonder we feel insecure? Breasts are out there, unlike, say the penis. You can totally see whether or not a woman has big or small boobs the second you meet her, it's like we're exposed. Unless a woman wears padded bras or push ups, which I hate. It's like faking it, and faking it sucks.
I WISH I had lewd men staring at my **** all the time. I don't get why big breasted women complain so much; they stare 'cause you're hot, deal with it. Gee.
Tsk Tsk, kiddo you've been hanging with the wrong crowd is all they are interested in is your ta ta's. Lot's of fella's don't care about mammoth sized ta ta's. Your personality means more to them than much else.
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