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I am not talking about the bars. Good post though.
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Originally Posted by Rita Mordio
To some, all they see is a not-fat body and go for it.
Move? That was easy.
Interesting, 'cause I've never been with a guy that I've not found attractive. Different people, different tastes. The guys I've dated have (somehow) been attracted to me, and I to them.
Actually, reality is: Different strokes for different folks.
There's plenty of folks out there who go for heftier men and women. Fact is, fat used to be the "in" thing. It was attractive to be big because the bigger people were usually the richer ones. There was also a time where bigger women had a higher chance of surviving childbirth - which, of course, made them that much more desirable.
Then why would you solely base your interactions at a bar (or similar venue) based upon the looks of the patrons?
Here's a tested and proven method: Join up with a club or group that does things you're interested in and enjoy yourself. If you see any potential mates, at least you'll know that the person has similar interests. And if you don't meet any, at least you'll be having fun doing something you like.
This isn't about you being gay. You've disrespected the female gender from the inception of this thread. Whatever my opinions are on your sexual orientation has nothing to do with your disdain for females. You've proven who you are and what you're all about in your initial post, and confirmed it in subsequent posts.
Too many generalizations in the OP. Women of different shapes, sizes, and levels of attractivness have a range of personality types. Attractive women can afford to be more selective but that doesn't make them bad.
Can you define attitude? Because sometimes people, men included, throw around the word attitude if a woman can stand up for herself, which sometimes means being a witch lol.
I have noticed a trend that the women who are good looking (pretty face, slimmer body) have attitude issues and are more likely to play hard to get then the ones who are chubby.
Also, it seems like the chubby ones are a lot more aggressive in pursueing men then that pretty girl.
Any comments on this?
in my personal experience, it's usually women who are only moderately attractive and think highly of themselves that tend to have bad attitudes. on the other hand, some girls who are strikingly beautiful are also surprisingly sweet and sometimes even shy
in my personal experience, it's usually women who are only moderately attractive and think highly of themselves that tend to have bad attitudes. on the other hand, some girls who are strikingly beautiful are also surprisingly sweet and sometimes even shy
This is the best post on this thread (other than mine, of course).
I used to wonder about a certain female type I ran into over and over. And actually are types in a lot of movies. Men love them despite how difficult they can be to have relationships with, they take good care of their looks etc. In my mind I dubbed it "the crazy blond thing" not because all the women were blond, but because in that type going blond seemed to be a preference.
Then I found this which explains it perfectly! Like any personality type there is a wide range from barely to severe.
Now sometimes I wonder, if there is indeed a genetic component - is it linked to other genes that result in good looks? That would make a whole lot of sense.
Thats why lot of attractive ones are single and some stay single.
News Flash- Half of the adult US population is now single. But of that approximately 50% there are more chubbies that are single.
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