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Guys will be talking about it as well saying "Dude, look at the desperate cougar MILF" or "Check out grandma trying to fit in with the young crowd" (even if "grandma" is only like 35-40 years old), or even "Look at the old lady showing off because she wants to get banged by a young dude". This will be ESPECIALLY true if she's like at a bar or club.
I have to agree here. And I'm 40, no kids or grandkids. Even with an in-shape body, past a certain age, it's about class. I've tried being in the best shape I can, had compliments from muscular men about my body, but even back at 25, I caught flack from other women, calling me bad names when I bared my midriff. In fact, outside of a gym, I haven't seen the bare midriff look on anyone young or old, since I was 25 during the baby-tee craze. But true midriff tops died out even before then. Even at my gym, come to think of it, nobody wears bare midriffs. I haven't worn sports bras since age 30, even when I look good in them. It just feels like I'm trying too hard. And all these comments that say that it's okay on an older woman at a nightclub: where are these nightclubs that middle aged women go to and actually have a good time at? Because around my area, people tend to stop going to clubs after 25. And at my age, I'm kind of invisible at them, even if I went in a midriff top and a micromini (another thing I quit wearing at 25, although I've still worn regular minis).
Guys will be talking about it as well saying "Dude, look at the desperate cougar MILF" or "Check out grandma trying to fit in with the young crowd" (even if "grandma" is only like 35-40 years old), or even "Look at the old lady showing off because she wants to get banged by a young dude". This will be ESPECIALLY true if she's like at a bar or club.
Wow, if you're basing those comments that young guys supposedly make about older women dressing a bit "younger" than it sounds like you hang aruund some real braindead, juvenile, haters. ('Roid heads, perhaps?)
Anyway, that hasn't been my expeience at all. I work with a a lot of 20-somethings and the vast majority of them dig hot, older women when they dress sexily. These guys LOVE cougars. I've NEVER heard one of them EVER use the word "desperate."
So, I'm thinking we have two options here, amigo: either you are projecting your own thoughts into the mouths of other "psuedo friends" as a vehicle to post them here, or we're just a whole lot more polite and not as judegemental down here in Austin as you SoCal boys are.
So...which is it?
Last edited by DrummerBoy; 10-25-2011 at 10:58 AM..
I've been around my guy friends in social settings when there have been older women wearing sexy outfits, and not once have I ever caught them referring to them as 'desperate'. Maybe some guys do, but not all of them. Also, a few of my younger (late 20s) guy friends are attracted to 40+ women, and they happen to like when they dress sexy.
Wow, if you're basing those comments that young guys supposedly make about older women dressing a bit "younger" than it sounds like you hang aruund some real braindead, juvenile, haters. ('Roid heads, perhaps?)
Anyway, that hasn't been my expeience at all. I work with a a lot of 20-somethings and the vast majority of them dig hot, older women when they dress sexily. These guys LOVE cougars. I've NEVER heard one of them EVER use the word "desperate."
So, I'm thinking we have two options here, amigo: either you are projecting your own thoughts into the mouths of other "psuedo friends" as a vehicle to post them here, or we're just a whole lot more polite and not as judegemental down here in Austin as you SoCal boys are.
So...which is it?
Big difference between texas and california there amigo. Cougars are NOT on the radar with the guys I know. Maybe they are with high school aged boys, but not 20-30 somethings. Texas, you got your leathery skinned straw haired cowboy hat wearing cigarette smoking Wrangler jeans and cowboy boots wearing "ya'll come to maw ma" milfy women who think "Toddlers and Tiaras" is a great show and they may be okay with older women trying to regain their youth by looking silly and low class like by wearing those shirts out to bars and restaurants. We dont have that in Southern California, well, except for maybe in Simi Valley, Riverside or Inland Empire, you know, areas where no one wants to live.
Big difference between texas and california there amigo. Cougars are NOT on the radar with the guys I know. Maybe they are with high school aged boys, but not 20-30 somethings. Texas, you got your leathery skinned straw haired cowboy hat wearing cigarette smoking Wrangler jeans and cowboy boots wearing "ya'll come to maw ma" milfy women who think "Toddlers and Tiaras" is a great show and they may be okay with older women trying to regain their youth by looking silly and low class like by wearing those shirts out to bars and restaurants. We dont have that in Southern California, well, except for maybe in Simi Valley, Riverside or Inland Empire, you know, areas where no one wants to live.
Big difference between texas and california there amigo. Cougars are NOT on the radar with the guys I know. Maybe they are with high school aged boys, but not 20-30 somethings. Texas, you got your leathery skinned straw haired cowboy hat wearing cigarette smoking Wrangler jeans and cowboy boots wearing "ya'll come to maw ma" milfy women who think "Toddlers and Tiaras" is a great show and they may be okay with older women trying to regain their youth by looking silly and low class like by wearing those shirts out to bars and restaurants. We dont have that in Southern California, well, except for maybe in Simi Valley, Riverside or Inland Empire, you know, areas where no one wants to live.
LOL--you've obviously never even been to Texas. Your grossly inaccurate and puerile stereotyping tell me that much.
I was gonna go on to ask if all Southern Calis are as snobby as you're coming-off as being, but since I was born there and lived there for many years, I know that's not the case.
So I reckon you're just special, huh? A legend in your own mind?
How's that workin' out for ya?
"There is one thing that will forever keep mankind mired in ignorance; and that is contempt prior to investigation." William James
Last edited by DrummerBoy; 10-25-2011 at 01:21 PM..
No offense to the OP but looking @ the pics, she seems to be a little obsessive/compulsive with these crop tops...they're everywhere!
Obsessive/compulsive?
I enjoy the style; I don't wear crop tops because it's something that would drive me nuts if I DONT' have one on.
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