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First of all - xxbabee - I'm glad you were happy with your ensemble and had fun going out for your birthday. Happy belated birthday!
Second - I don't spend much time over here or Relationships or NYC but have been to all three and have posted with a few of you before. I don't know the full background but it doesn't take long to pick up on some of the rivalries and unpleasantness. It's almost comical how so many of you are willing (presumably repeatedly - certainly repeatedly in this thread) to take the bait. As the OP proclaimed earlier in this thread - you're playing right into the trap she laid for you. If you find her so distasteful, the smartest thing you could do is to disengage - don't open her threads, don't post in her threads, and don't respond to her or about her in other threads. Continuing to post with her pretty much supports her claim that some of you are fascinated and practically obsessed with her - maybe it's time to pursue more worthwhile interests.
Third - the OP didn't ask yay or nay - she was just showing her outfit. Most civil people, if they had nothing nice to say, would simply skip the thread and say nothing at all. It comes across as spiteful, petty, and unkind to post the negative comments some of you have made here. IMO, that kind of mean spiritedness is equally attention seeking behavior - and more destructive. Some of you accuse the OP of having a self-esteem issue but what does it say of you when you have to compare your own traits to the OP and cut her down?
Why did you think that? You looked at her picture and thought "transgendered"?
To be honest, I also thought she was (and perhaps still think she is ) just from how hard she tries to look feminine and grab attention at any opportunity she gets. NBF do not do this, typically.
To be honest, I also thought she was (and perhaps still think she is ) just from how hard she tries to look feminine and grab attention at any opportunity she gets. NBF do not do this, typically.
After all that...can you try to make yourself look less transparent?
There's a big difference between honesty and being simply obvious. I don't understand your constant quest for attention, but I truly do find it to be rather sad.
And that's me being honest.
You seem intelligent, but you are SOOOO focused on your looks -and the sad thing is that if you'd quit...errrr...ENHANCING your natural looks, you'd actually be more attractive. When I say that, I mean it in all sincerity, and as an attempt to help you.
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) just from how hard she tries to look feminine and grab attention at any opportunity she gets. NBF do not do this, typically.
