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Old 10-21-2013, 06:58 PM
 
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I am a 20 year old male

6"2
194 lbs

Not muscular or anything like that but facially I have been called alright looking. I am not ugly, but I am really average, that is what people say about me. Some girls say I am kinda cute but that rarely happens, I am not the top tier kind of guy.

I looked into the reasons for this and the one my friends keep telling me is that I look very "foreign". See I have light brown skin, black hair, and brown eyes (yes, I am a minority).

I know that can't be it.

What I want to know is, what makes girls from the age of 18-22 consider a guy physically attractive or handsome?
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Old 10-21-2013, 08:26 PM
 
Location: Greenwood Village Colorado
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Hello Bob
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Old 10-21-2013, 09:16 PM
 
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Hello Bob
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Old 10-22-2013, 01:07 PM
 
Location: The State Line
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Put a large wad of Benjamins in your pocket... .
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Old 10-22-2013, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Greenwood Village Colorado
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Put a large wad of Benjamins in your pocket... .

expensive car works, being a rock star works really well too. Learn to play guitar and join a band.
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Old 10-22-2013, 02:25 PM
 
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Learn to play guitar and join a band.
Seriously. There are some ugly guys in bands that girls just go crazy over. If they were just some average guy walking down the street, no one would pay them any attention.
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Old 10-22-2013, 04:16 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Frequent interaction, repeated expressed interest by him, opportunity, and booze (weed for some).
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Old 10-23-2013, 12:41 AM
 
Location: San Diego
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This is an odd question. It doesn't really matter your looks or age group. Get yourself out there and put yourself in social settings. At 20, house and college parties. Party and see what happens. If you constantly get turned down, then you need to think about your confidence. Unless your ugly, you could get an average chick 2/10 times at least.
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Old 10-23-2013, 05:50 AM
 
Location: NY
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From what you describe you do not sound physically unattractive.

Keep yourself in relatively good shape. Learn how to dress neat/sharp. Carry yourself well in public. Make sure you are giving off an image of being "approachable."
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Old 10-23-2013, 07:15 AM
 
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I am not saying attractive as in getting laid, I got that. I am talking more about getting compliments for my looks. The guys who get it from my experience are tall and usually white.
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