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Originally Posted by Libertine The Great
I am a fairly miserable guy. On one hand I want to be good looking and feel that I have the potential in me to be a good looking guy. On the other hand I know that genetics gave me a really bad hand (round face, big nose, and almond eyes).
People have described me as intelligent, charming, cool guy, and I have had a lot of good things said about me.
Yet, I want to be known by society for my looks. Like when people describe me, I want handsome, good looking, and attractive to be one of the qualities they list. I have definitely considered plastic surgery and do plan on looking more into it and finding the money to get it. Like I don't even want to be good looking just to attract women, because I know money, confidence, and a lot of other things can do that. I want to be good looking to be good looking alone, so I can be labeled as handsome and often be known for my looks.
Problem is somewhere in my mind, I have a hard time stopping this obsession. I think it has to do with me being bullied or joked about for my looks while growing up (I was fat and geeky but I lost a lot of weight now).
How do I handle this problem?
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You don't have to be "handsome" to get accepted by the society, heck you already have most of the positive characteristics that not everybody has. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholders, don't let any negative things hold you back, man. Go to the gym and exercise, buy clothes that complement your body, keep your personal hygiene in check, and you're good to go
Have you ever heard of song called "Just the Way You Are," by a guy name Bruno Mars? Go listen to it.
P.S: DON'T EVER THINK OF PLASTIC SURGERY AGAIN!!!