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Old 11-25-2013, 11:32 AM
 
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What do you mean when you say "it's okay"?
I basically want meat on my partner. My partner doesn't think it's what I want even though it is.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:33 AM
 
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HOW ABOUT YOU DATE PEOPLE WITH MEAT ON THEIR BONES INSTEAD OF TRYING TO CHANGE UNWILLING PEOPLE!?


Some times people develop bad habits. This is human. Sometimes people become something that they think you want them to become.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:37 AM
 
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I am into the health aspect of it, not necessarily JUST the look.
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Old 11-25-2013, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Prospect, KY
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I've been heavy at a few points in my life but mostly about 10 to 12 lbs. over ideal, now I am thin, some might say bony. But I am healthy and being thin has many advantages - since I am not hauling around extra weight, I just feel better - less aches and pains, I have soooo much more energy than when I was heavier. I sleep better, digestive system is perfect now, skin and eyes are clear (many friends tell me this anyway). I look good in almost any style clothing which is fun actually. I am not preoccupied with food and I eat no sugar or junk but I do eat big meals filled with mostly whole, often raw foods. I've kept the weight off now over a year without gaining more than a pound - actually I've had problems with losing more than I want - this is what happens when you go without the junk - you just get thin. Normal weight on the lower range often is perceived as bony or underweight when in fact it is "normal."

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Old 11-25-2013, 03:57 PM
 
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Some times people develop bad habits. This is human. Sometimes people become something that they think you want them to become.
It's wouldn't be easy being something you think someone else wants..are you sure SHE thinks you want her thin?...do you know how much "meat" on her bones would be OK with you?..maybe she doesn't...maybe she just wants you to be OK with her(at whatever weight)..maybe she's thin cause she likes it....Maybe she's not that way for you, maybe she's always been thin, and doesn't feel it's "a bad habit".
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Old 11-27-2013, 11:26 AM
 
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maybe if I start having women on my phone that are bodybuilders/bodybuilding type body. could this change things to get her to start thinking different???
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Old 11-27-2013, 11:30 AM
 
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I don't think it's "normal" for women to be thin. the way we were born, girls are supposed to have weight to be able to support babies in their womb and were made to accomodate the growth. Where men were not, hence the mostly, relatively narrow hips and bone structure for men.
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:25 PM
 
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maybe if I start having women on my phone that are bodybuilders/bodybuilding type body. could this change things to get her to start thinking different???
No. She'll just start to feel inadequate, as if her body isn't good enough for you. She might feel self conscious, and will stop being intimate with you thinking you are judging her when naked.

So if you want her to break up with you, then yeah, start ogling pictures of women on your phone that don't look like your girlfriend.

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I don't think it's "normal" for women to be thin. the way we were born, girls are supposed to have weight to be able to support babies in their womb and were made to accomodate the growth. Where men were not, hence the mostly, relatively narrow hips and bone structure for men.
And yet women with all different body types are still able to have children. Being naturally thin is not going to cause a woman to not be able to "support babies in their womb". Now if she is anorexic and has health issues that is one thing, but just thin? No.
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:40 PM
 
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And yet women with all different body types are still able to have children. Being naturally thin is not going to cause a woman to not be able to "support babies in their womb". Now if she is anorexic and has health issues that is one thing, but just thin? No.

True~ I never had problems becoming impregnated had 4 babies.... So being thin has no bearing on it...
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