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Old 01-06-2014, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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It is HER choice, not yours.

Don't you think you and some other folks are ridiculous and dramatic to get her shave her arms Meanwhile it is "fine" for men to look like gorilla, this same arm hair what males have changes "disgusting" on girls arms?

Wax it away, bu huu, women cannot have body hair, they must be all plastic, lol!

I hope OP honor herself and keeps her way

What comes to pain generally, you can give valid opinion only what you feel when doing personal waxing. Everyone else have their own ability how to rate pain what they feel. If pain is worth for you, then do so but telling someone should do it because it would please others, lol! I wish everyone would have self-respect to not be anyones puppet like that.

Not Again .

The OP specifically asked for feedback and advice, and its being delivered. I wax my arms in summer (as a guy) because of patchy bushes of hair growth which makes my arms look disgusting. Its not by any means Painful if done right and a good suggestion. Maybe you have smooth uniform body hair men may appreciate, but remember that all women are not blessed with such bodies. Shaving is the only option under those scenarios.
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Old 01-06-2014, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Cape Cod
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You are a pretty young lady with a GREAT Smile. I didn't notice your arm hair until someone mentioned it. If some guy can't get past your forearm hair then who cares. He probably is a jerk anyways.
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Old 01-07-2014, 03:00 AM
 
Location: Europe
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Not Again .

The OP specifically asked for feedback and advice, and its being delivered. I wax my arms in summer (as a guy) because of patchy bushes of hair growth which makes my arms look disgusting. Its not by any means Painful if done right and a good suggestion. Maybe you have smooth uniform body hair men may appreciate, but remember that all women are not blessed with such bodies. Shaving is the only option under those scenarios.

It is NOT about what "men appreciate". It is about what people personally want to do with their bodies. Men does not own a woman body, that is her choice no matter how thick or visible hair is. HER choice! She says what are her options, not you. You can only to choose to date with a one or not if you would been that lucky to get a change to choose. Your options are yes, I would date with a girl with arm hair or no, I would not. Your options and your rights stop in to that point. You are not able to demand her to shave to please you.

If you have a good tolerance for pain, good for you. It does not mean everyone has a good tolerance for pain. If you tell a person to wax who finds it too painful to commit, that is sadistic, intress comes from you, not from her. And when most of people here will never even see her irl why to care if she shaves or not?

It is not just about her shaving, it is generally about sadistic men who want women to shave meanwhile most of them don't shave. Props to you to even shave some hair personally before telling others to shave. Does not change the fact that you have no rights to say what others are choosing to do.

Are you this same guy who is embrassed of being without a shirt? And you also keep your hairy arms disgusting? Learn to love your natural body. Self hate is not healthy. Be in peace with yourself and you are able to be in peace with other people
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Old 01-07-2014, 03:22 PM
 
Location: NJ
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It is NOT about what "men appreciate". It is about what people personally want to do with their bodies. Men does not own a woman body, that is her choice no matter how thick or visible hair is. HER choice! She says what are her options, not you. You can only to choose to date with a one or not if you would been that lucky to get a change to choose. Your options are yes, I would date with a girl with arm hair or no, I would not. Your options and your rights stop in to that point. You are not able to demand her to shave to please you.

If you have a good tolerance for pain, good for you. It does not mean everyone has a good tolerance for pain. If you tell a person to wax who finds it too painful to commit, that is sadistic, intress comes from you, not from her. And when most of people here will never even see her irl why to care if she shaves or not?

It is not just about her shaving, it is generally about sadistic men who want women to shave meanwhile most of them don't shave. Props to you to even shave some hair personally before telling others to shave. Does not change the fact that you have no rights to say what others are choosing to do.

Are you this same guy who is embrassed of being without a shirt? And you also keep your hairy arms disgusting? Learn to love your natural body. Self hate is not healthy. Be in peace with yourself and you are able to be in peace with other people
this is pure insanity. its perfectly fine to suggest that someone shave their arms. nobody is saying that they are giving someone else a limited number of options that the person may choose. everyone knows that its the person's choice to do what they want. your first paragraph about "options" is absolutely ridiculous to even type.

the self hate mumbo jumbo is nuts also. its obvious that you have had your own personal issues with your own self image. you probably made it into your own personal emotional trauma and you blame others for whatever issues you had with yourself. other people aren't nuts. they know that its their choice, they want to do certain things to make them more attractive and they understand that it doesn't mean they hate themselves. you want to believe there is an element of self hate because that makes you feel some phony sense of superiority over them because they care about something while you pretend not to.
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Old 01-08-2014, 01:08 AM
 
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6 points of 10
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Old 01-09-2014, 07:48 AM
 
Location: San Antonio-Westover Hills
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nothing is more disturbing to me in this thread than the majority of the responses.
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Old 01-09-2014, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Annandale, VA
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Embedded for you.

Nice rack!!!
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Old 01-09-2014, 02:03 PM
 
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Very pretty! I don't think you have anything to worry about.
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Old 01-09-2014, 02:13 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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Umm, the OP created a username and posted only ONCE over two and a half weeks ago. Is it now safe to call this thread what it really is?

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nothing is more disturbing to me in this thread than the majority of the responses.
Exactly this^^^
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Old 01-09-2014, 02:43 PM
 
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wax those arms
aside from that,
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