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Old 01-11-2014, 01:21 PM
 
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I often wonder about my own looks a lot and have no idea where I stand. When I posted my picture to beautifulpeople.com I made it in without any issues but in real life I hardly get much if any attention by girls. I don't get approached by girls and haven't really been told I look good that much at all. I asked my friends about it and one of them said it is because I am a minority living in the dixie where most girls are not going to openly tell a man of my color that I look good, I would have better luck in more progressive areas.
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Old 01-11-2014, 01:35 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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SInce you say you are handsome but not popular with the girls... it is not your looks but your personality.
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Old 01-11-2014, 01:36 PM
 
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BS threads like this need to stop. Are people really that bored?
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Old 01-11-2014, 03:41 PM
 
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Or that insecure and self-obsessed
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Old 01-11-2014, 06:05 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Or that insecure and self-obsessed
Yes, they are.

OP, move to NYC or the San Fran Bay Area, if you can.
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Old 01-11-2014, 06:24 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Not in my experience. If a guy is handsome he will get plenty of female attention, and his personality will not fetter the results. There are plenty of shallow minded females queuing for their chance at Adonis.
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Old 01-11-2014, 07:06 PM
 
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Not in my experience. If a guy is handsome he will get plenty of female attention, and his personality will not fetter the results. There are plenty of shallow minded females queuing for their chance at Adonis.
and just how much experience do you have?
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Old 01-11-2014, 07:52 PM
 
Location: SE Michigan
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Another one? Sheesh it's like a virus or something.

OP, let me guess. You are either Asian, or short, or both. And you are most certainly socially inept, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question. You resent the fact that you are still a virgin, and you blame this on your height, your skin color, on the fact that women are shallow, on where you live, etc. It surely isn't your personality. Oh, and you're male, and young.

Amirite? Of course I am.
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Old 01-11-2014, 07:57 PM
 
Location: NJ
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the only people that compliment my looks are my mother in law and my mother's geezer friends. as a guy, you dont really get compliments that much. but if you are nailing attractive girls, that has to mean you are also attractive.
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Old 01-11-2014, 10:46 PM
 
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I am not overly handsome and my personality is mildly adequate for most social situations but i seem to not lack for female companionship! I am rich but that shouldn't make a difference?
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