Why are men vilified for saying they like big boobs? (difference, buy)
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I sometimes wonder how men would feel if their "package" was in a place that everyone would be able to see the size and shape and make judgments about them as a person based on the size of their package, like people do with women's breasts. I'm guessing there'd be a lot of "package" enlarging surgeries because they not only wouldn't want women to see they were lacking in that department, they wouldn't want other men to see their small package.
Because women with big boobs are generally considered to be dumb, loose, floozies, tramps, or cheap. Many people call them either fat or fake and thus not desireable. So it goes with the men who desire them. Insecure average sized women and some women who have big boobs use them as an excuse when they do or don't get what they want out of life because of the way society views large breasts. So it goes with the men who enjoy them.
Why can't a real man focus on boobs as well as all your other things? They are just not as high a priority. What if your list looks like this....
1. personality
Personality is a lot like boobs. Half the women in the world don't have any worth noticing.
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2. type of person she is
See 1.
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3. someone you can spend your life with
There's only one of those, and half the men in the world can't afford that one.
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I have no idea what the big boobs fixation is. A nice firm C cup is my idea of perfection. I think the big boobs thing is an adolescent fantasy of young guys who have had no experience with naked women.
It's a little hard to not hang them out in public. There's no hiding them. I can cover them completely, and they're still there, front and center.
And no, unless you are my significant other, it is NOT polite to comment on my breasts.
If you cover them completely, there is no way I would make comments about your breasts. However, if you show up in a low cut top and push-up bra, it's entirely appropriate to let you know you accomplished the effect you were trying for.
I have no idea what the big boobs fixation is. A nice firm C cup is my idea of perfection. I think the big boobs thing is an adolescent fantasy of young guys who have had no experience with naked women.
Interesting. So the only way a naturally large chested woman can hope to get a mature, we'll adjusted man like yourself is to get a reduction? Or just become a nun or a lesbian? Or just give up on the hopes of a fulfilling life in general?
If you cover them completely, there is no way I would make comments about your breasts. However, if you show up in a low cut top and push-up bra, it's entirely appropriate to let you know you accomplished the effect you were trying for.
No, really it's not. Any whoever taught you that it's appropriate should be slapped.
If you cover them completely, there is no way I would make comments about your breasts. However, if you show up in a low cut top and push-up bra, it's entirely appropriate to let you know you accomplished the effect you were trying for.
No, it is not appropriate to comment. It is considered rude and makes you look like a fool.
The problem is objectifying women based solely on their boobs. Reducing a woman to no more worth than what is contained in her bra.
How's that any different from women refusing to look past the fact that a guy isn't 6 ft tall and not bothering to find out anything about his personality, intelligence, etc? I'm talking strictly from the standpoint of dating, of course.
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