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I think it is a very good thing in the long run when one comes to terms with this, OP. It shocks me how many men in the real world are truly oblivious of just how undesirable they are to women, and how much they embarrass themselves not yet realizing this fact. Perhaps some do, but rather choose to believe the delusional ravings and cliches of "looks don't matter" or "it's all about personality" than coming to terms with reality.
At first, it's understandably depressing to realize that you're one of the "undesirables". However, in the long run, I believe one naturally adjusts to this and finds other avenues in life to seek happiness and fulfillment. Knowing this fact, what you do with is your choice. You can either move on with your life and forget about the whole notion of relationships and girlfriends/wife (as millions of undesirable men, that finally comes to this realization, do everyday), or you can continue to be depressed about this when there is no real reason to be.
I didn't say that, I said in my experience, usually when a woman says she doesn't care about looks, she herself is not that attractive. It's kinda like, when somebody tries to hook you up with one of their female friends and you say how does she look and they say she has a great personality. You automatically know she's not unattractive.
OP - the solution is "right under your nose" in a matter of speaking.
You must be trying too hard, so reverse that and cultivate within yourself to change your attitude to being positive/outgoing and at the same time not giving a and you may see your luck change.
I can't tell you how many women in recent weeks (in fact yesterday as well) gave me the "please ask me out" in their eyes look and I'm no "10" myself. Just an young early 50's geezer lol!
Maybe you live in a heavily affluent area (I don't know) which could explain your luck. I used to reside in such type area and many other "need to be a Brad Pitt with $$, etc...," factors seem to come into play.
I didn't say that, I said in my experience, usually when a woman says she doesn't care about looks, she herself is not that attractive. It's kinda like, when somebody tries to hook you up with one of their female friends and you say how does she look and they say she has a great personality. You automatically know she's not unattractive.
I only care if he appeals to me.I understand what you mean though.I was set up on a few blind dates. What's he look like? He likes art, Raena.
All we have is the visual of a screen name called "Hairy Manback"...
Actually, his photo exists on this very forum if you know where to look.
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and you may see your luck change.
