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It's hard for preteen and teen girls to stay fashionable without being sexy at times. I developed early for back in my time(more common now) and I had many arguments with my mom about clothing. I specifically remember when the pin striped mini denim skirts were the rage. All the girls were wearing them with sweaters and tights etc... I wanted one so bad but because I wasn't rail then and had some butt and curves, my mom deemed all of them too sexy...for me. She even said because I remember to this day, " They look cute on skinny girls, but they look cheap on you". It did effect my psyche,how could it not? Now as an adult I understand what she was saying but at the time I felt horribly ashamed that there was something different about me and it wasn't perceived as positive. I still don't think that attitude is right but I understand where it comes from.
Hm, this is a tough one, that's going to be dependent on the culture and most importantly the family of the girl. It seems it's generally over 16, me personally I'd say at least 18, I see too many 14 year olds dressing inappropriately, sad time.
I don't think it is ever appropriate for a girl to wear sexy things. A woman is free to dress as sexy or unsexy as she likes, so I go with 18 years old.
if i had a daughter i would say 18......mainly because i would really have no say after that especially if she lived on her own and supported herself...lol
Even 18 seems young. I would hope for 20/21 maybe! It is their choice as adults, but I think if parents are consistent in helping them make good choices in their childhood and teen years, then they would probably go on to have the skills to make good ones themselves.
UCK, I see nitwit Moms dressing their little girlies up like Tartlets......WTH is wrong with you!?!?!?!?!?
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