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Originally Posted by dizzybint
Im an old bird myself but no not for me... the humiliation is too much ..
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And its not to my taste either.
But I like to do plenty of other things other people might think it's ridiculous for an old lady to do -- like dance hip hop with guys half my age at a workplace party, and climb trees for the fun of it. People can laugh at that too.
But those old gals at the pageant look mighty exhilarated and radiant, rather than "humiliated"!
It works for them.
At our age we get to be extremely
distinct individuals, each with our own tastes and values.
Let's leave the in-group / out-group thinking to the kids. We get to live in our own skin and express our inner selves however works for us now. And not care a whole lot about whether something is according to somebody else' bland, homogenised, media-created aesthetic.
At my age, I'm "supposed" to be sitting in front of a television set, buying products to "make" me look "younger". Nope. As soon as the sun comes up I'll be out for my morning run. Nobody makes a dime off that. I feel great from it. And the neighbor kids can say whatever they want about "That's an old lady out running!" (I heard one of them marvel that phrase one time)
Mature age, and full expression of our personality -- whether it includes sexuality (like the glamour divas) or athleticism (like me) -- is not "humiliating"... unless we choose for it to be.
Rock on, Granny Divas!