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I must clarify, I'm pretty sure a guy feels another guy is becoming more beautiful with long hair when they get that fear that looking at their hair approvingly means they are becoming gay. They probably wouldn't have that feeling it they thought it looked bad?
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Originally Posted by karen_in_nh_2012
Funny thread! Um, not everyone thinks guys "become more beautiful" when they grow their hair long.
I can understand the feeling, I think. Like maybe they don't look perfect, but close enough, in their minds and the minds of those who encourage them.
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I actually don't care that much. It's just an opinion and passing observation. Truly, if they want to take on that look, that's great and much happiness to them. It just isn't personally flattering to many of them.
Thanks for your story, I feel so bad your youngest son tried to please his dad too late. I hope your son can now have his hair as he wants.
Actually, he cut his hair for his grandpa. And it was an act of love. My dad was teasingly jealous of my son's gorgeous locks, and would tease my son to give him some of it.
I'm an old lady who grew up in the times when every young man looked like he was in Led Zeppelin. I must say that I could never get interested in a dude who did not have at least a longish hair (it caused some problems for my late great old boy who was an airline pilot - luckily, an European airline that was a bit more tolerant of Keith Richards hairdo under the captain's hat :-). So, long hair to me is the only hair that looks attractive on a guy (or braids, for a Black guy). Just my geriatric 5 cents' worth of opinion :-).
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They have groups for these people on You Tube. They have 1-3 month hair grow videos and time lapse 1-5 year hair growth videos. They tell others keep on growing or why not start now to see if you like it? Kinda like a challenge or dare and emotional support. Some pledge will do for 1-2 years , or til they can't stand it.
Some do hair care tips or admit they do nothing special.
Some of the guys joke they fear they are turning gay when they see another man become more beautiful when they grow their hair long. Personally I doubt they really want sex with them, but might want some like-minded friends to hang out with. Do any of you think it's good (long hair freedom), bad, or don't care?
I see long and/or thick hair as sign of good health, compared to what I see on top of most people's heads since 2000. When I look at circa 1970s family photos posted on line, I see healthy people.
Actually, he cut his hair for his grandpa. And it was an act of love. My dad was teasingly jealous of my son's gorgeous locks, and would tease my son to give him some of it.
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Um, not everyone thinks guys "become more beautiful" when they grow their hair long. 
