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People are always going to judge me about how I look. Ultimately I decide to wear what I want to wear and look how I want to look. If I tried to win everyone's approval about something as shallow as looks, I would spend all my time in a vain attempt to improve my appearance and fail at the task anyway. That's why I turned down a job in which the company tried to force me to wear makeup. I refuse to wear makeup because I find the idea that I have to put stuff on my face in order to supposedly perform well at a company (while men of course, don't) offensive.
Ha ha! Yes, in other words, that's EXACTLY how I feel. Except I'm 60. I don't give a flip what YOU think of the way I dress.
If you're openly disgusted, YOU have weird issues, and YOU'RE the one with a problem.
It's almost kind of funny, the people who feel like they have a right to tell other women what to wear. To me, it's an annoyance....like as if a housefly wants to tell me what to wear. Its opinion is so irrelevant to me, and so are the opinions of anyone who's deciding that 35 is where to draw the line! It's laughable!
Why would I listen to a 20 and under someone telling ME what I can or should wear? Your POV (on this topic) is so irrelevant to me. I mean, really. I'm giggling over here.
Come to think of it Ive become invisible now so it wouldnt matter if a went out on a white horse in the nude.... buses run past me when I stick my hand out so no one will notice.
I'm sorry, but in today's world how are you CERTAIN someone is 35 and up? I have some younger friends who look MUCH older than they are and I myself will be 36 but constantly get told I must only be 27--by both males and females, to the point I genuinely have to show people my license.
I say wear whatever fits your body appropriately and whatever you are comfortable in.
I see lots of women over 35 wearing tops that are really low cut, sometimes so low cut you can see their breasts. While it may be okay for younger women much like midriffs how do you feel about women over 35 and lower, really lower cut tops?
Breasts or Butts, I don’t want to see either paraded around for display like you’re the only person on the planet, no matter how old you are. Oh wait....we’re not supposed to notice are we? Whatever.
How can this question even be answered? Do you want measurements? People are different. Cleavage is different. Age is relative. How could there possibly be an answer to this question?
Well, when I see a 25 year old letting it all hang out I feel like telling her "honey, go home and put some CLOTHES on" and when I see a well-kept lady in her 50s showing off a bit of what she's got, I think "now YOU have earned the right to dress a bit wild".
But then I am just an ordinary guy, no longer young.
"When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."
Some people can appreciate a 25 year old Scotch, and some are still drinking Boone's Farm.
People are always going to judge me about how I look. Ultimately I decide to wear what I want to wear and look how I want to look. If I tried to win everyone's approval about something as shallow as looks, I would spend all my time in a vain attempt to improve my appearance and fail at the task anyway.
That's why I turned down a job in which the company tried to force me to wear makeup. I refuse to wear makeup because I find the idea that I have to put stuff on my face in order to supposedly perform well at a company (while men of course, don't) offensive.
What type of company could possibly require female employees to wear makeup? Unless it is a company that sells make-up that is just crazy.
[OP] You seem to be missing that no one gives a hoot about your opinion of them.
I have never cared about what the "vast majority of men" would pick, and I sure as heck don't now that I'm over 50.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 04-10-2018 at 09:38 AM..
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