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Old 12-03-2019, 12:38 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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so what?
you know what.
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Old 12-03-2019, 01:43 PM
 
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so what?
Um...I don’t want my boyfriend to appear to be gay. That’s what.
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Old 12-03-2019, 02:13 PM
 
Location: NorCal...The Bay Area
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Um...I don’t want my boyfriend to appear to be gay. That’s what.




It would be up to your Bf what he wants to wear tho.....wouldn't it? I like professional looking men....or men that have a rougher & more manly appearance.......that's why I'm attracted to my fiance. But O.P. says he wears smaller hoops already.....& his gf likes it.....so she is already attracted to him like that......shrugs.......
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Old 12-03-2019, 04:08 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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So what do you think, should I give it a try?
You'll look ridiculous. No.
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Old 12-03-2019, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Loudon, TN
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I saw a guy at the airport wearing a black denim kilt. When he wasn't looking I took a picture. Be ready for that sort of reaction. Do you work? How will this go over with your employer?
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Old 12-03-2019, 05:20 PM
 
Location: annandale, va & slidell, la
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A few years ago, when I got 30 years old, I pierced both of my ears. And started wearing hoop earrings. Like some friends of me. They pierced their ears before and said that hoops would look good on me too.

In fact was a birthday gift from my girlfriend. I wanted earrings from a long time, but never dared to wear them. I thought it was something for women. She said that was something just in my mind. And that I had to take a close look at those friends.

In the beginning it was very odd wearing earrings. I didn't felt compliance with them. But when I got used to my earrings, I was very happy. And started loving my hoops. So I regretted that didn't pierce my ears earlier.

But since a few months I want to wear other earrings, big hoops, like my girlfriend does. I really love her hoops and think they make her very hot. When I talked to her about it she had to smile. And let me try her hoops for an evening.

It made me very nervous. I never had any other earrings in my ears than my normal hoops. Not even for fun, like some other guys do. And now I was wearing big hoop earrings. Placed by my girlfriend.

After a while it felt great. And I wanted to wear them more often. So I said to her that I wanted big hoop earrings by myself too.

She had no problem with that. But she also said that other people would think different about that. And that I would have a very hard time wearing big hoop earrings. Especially in the beginning, when people see me for the first time with big hoop earrings.

Off course I know that. And that bothers me. So I'm not sure about what to do.

So what do you think, should I give it a try? And change my hoops of about 1 inch for hoops of about 2, 2,5, or even 3 inch (the hoops my girlfriend has and I love the most).
Expect a reaction to your evocative action. Then decide.
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Old 12-03-2019, 06:31 PM
 
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It would be up to your Bf what he wants to wear tho.....wouldn't it? I like professional looking men....or men that have a rougher & more manly appearance.......that's why I'm attracted to my fiance. But O.P. says he wears smaller hoops already.....& his gf likes it.....so she is already attracted to him like that......shrugs.......
LOL. Of course it’s up to him what he wears. It’s also up to me as to whether or not he’s my boyfriend. That’s the whole friggin point of my post.
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Old 12-03-2019, 09:46 PM
 
Location: colorado springs, CO
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I would like it. I think it would look cool.

I've always been attracted to the unconventional types.
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Old 12-03-2019, 09:52 PM
 
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A few years ago, when I got 30 years old, I pierced both of my ears. And started wearing hoop earrings. Like some friends of me. They pierced their ears before and said that hoops would look good on me too.

In fact was a birthday gift from my girlfriend. I wanted earrings from a long time, but never dared to wear them. I thought it was something for women. She said that was something just in my mind. And that I had to take a close look at those friends.

In the beginning it was very odd wearing earrings. I didn't felt compliance with them. But when I got used to my earrings, I was very happy. And started loving my hoops. So I regretted that didn't pierce my ears earlier.

But since a few months I want to wear other earrings, big hoops, like my girlfriend does. I really love her hoops and think they make her very hot. When I talked to her about it she had to smile. And let me try her hoops for an evening.

It made me very nervous. I never had any other earrings in my ears than my normal hoops. Not even for fun, like some other guys do. And now I was wearing big hoop earrings. Placed by my girlfriend.

After a while it felt great. And I wanted to wear them more often. So I said to her that I wanted big hoop earrings by myself too.

She had no problem with that. But she also said that other people would think different about that. And that I would have a very hard time wearing big hoop earrings. Especially in the beginning, when people see me for the first time with big hoop earrings.

Off course I know that. And that bothers me. So I'm not sure about what to do.

So what do you think, should I give it a try? And change my hoops of about 1 inch for hoops of about 2, 2,5, or even 3 inch (the hoops my girlfriend has and I love the most).
Do whatever makes you happy..........that is what counts.....!!!!!!
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Old 12-04-2019, 09:22 AM
 
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A few years ago, when I got 30 years old, I pierced both of my ears. And started wearing hoop earrings. Like some friends of me. They pierced their ears before and said that hoops would look good on me too.

In fact was a birthday gift from my girlfriend. I wanted earrings from a long time, but never dared to wear them. I thought it was something for women. She said that was something just in my mind. And that I had to take a close look at those friends.

In the beginning it was very odd wearing earrings. I didn't felt compliance with them. But when I got used to my earrings, I was very happy. And started loving my hoops. So I regretted that didn't pierce my ears earlier.

But since a few months I want to wear other earrings, big hoops, like my girlfriend does. I really love her hoops and think they make her very hot. When I talked to her about it she had to smile. And let me try her hoops for an evening.

It made me very nervous. I never had any other earrings in my ears than my normal hoops. Not even for fun, like some other guys do. And now I was wearing big hoop earrings. Placed by my girlfriend.

After a while it felt great. And I wanted to wear them more often. So I said to her that I wanted big hoop earrings by myself too.

She had no problem with that. But she also said that other people would think different about that. And that I would have a very hard time wearing big hoop earrings. Especially in the beginning, when people see me for the first time with big hoop earrings.

Off course I know that. And that bothers me. So I'm not sure about what to do.

So what do you think, should I give it a try? And change my hoops of about 1 inch for hoops of about 2, 2,5, or even 3 inch (the hoops my girlfriend has and I love the most).

You realize if you're not Latinx you're going to be accused of cultural appropriation, right?
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