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"Subtly sexy"?! With the OP's body?? There would be nothing subtle about it! She said she didn't want to send the wrong message. A "keyhole" blouse with a large keyhole would definitely send a message. On that model, not so much. On a Kardashian---hoo boy! WAITER! We need a fire hose at table 6!
I don't think there's anything scandalous about the top... even if the OP has a large chest. It's stylish. She shouldn't have to wear a burka just because she's curvy... If you got it, flaunt it. I don't know what's so horrible about showing off your body.
I don't think there's anything scandalous about the top... even if the OP has a large chest. It's stylish. She shouldn't have to wear a burka just because she's curvy... If you got it, flaunt it. I don't know what's so horrible about showing off your body.
Go back and read the OP''s first few posts. She explains why she doesn't want to show off her body on the first date.
"Date nights" sound like you're married or with a well-established partner. Going on those first few dates with a new prospect may point to slightly different style of clothes.
I would wear a dress on the first date, second or later if we’re going to a dinner dates at nice restaurants. I usually only date men that I’ve known for awhile, so our first date was always a dinner at a nice restaurant. If we’re going on a hike or biking then I’ll be dressing in hiking or biking clothes. I would dress in jeans/sweaters if we’re going just to grab a quick bites for lunch or desserts at a casual place.
As a man, I certainly would rather my date dress sleezy rather than frumpy. Sleezy is OK. I have absolutely NO problem with a date dressing sleezy, assuming she can pull it off. Bring it on. Sounds good to me.
As a man, I certainly would rather my date dress sleezy rather than frumpy. Sleezy is OK. I have absolutely NO problem with a date dressing sleezy, assuming she can pull it off. Bring it on. Sounds good to me.
You have no idea what life is like for women. It's not that simple. But thanks for your sincerity.
For me, it would depend on what we are doing on the first date. Usually it's casual such as coffee or lunch and in that case, I would just wear a nice pair of jeans with a cute top. If we were doing dinner I might wear a dress, nothing too sexy as I wouldn't want to be sending "I'm open to sex on the first date" message.
I gather from the posts I have read that OP is in her 40s. She should know how to dress by now. SMH.
One dresses for the occasion. What's the date - a baseball game or a five star restaurant, coffee or the governor's ball?
What's her normal attire? That should come into play. Is the idea to hook someone and then start living in sweatpants and a stretched out t-shirt?
As for showing off her figure, if it's good it will be obvious unless she works at hiding it. A turtle neck doesn't hide the fact that a woman has boobs, nor do jeans hide a nice butt. It's more important that the clothes fit well as in not too tight or too loose, ate clean and appropriate for the date activity. Men and women have been getting together since caveman skins inspite of all the various clothing styles since then.
...I've seen Kim before, she's really tiny. There is no way she is 5'2.
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You think she's shorter than 5'2? If so, there's no way she's anywhere close to a size 10 or 12. She would literally look like a circle.
I'm 5'3" & of course short people can't hold any weight w/o looking chubby already.
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