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YES I have been through it too. I'm a DD and small framed. No matter what I wear unless its covered by a jacket, my girls are way out there. I always used to get snide comments from the ugly, fat older women hating on me. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful!!!
Get a reduction or don't ask everyone else in the world to NOT notice. YOU'RE the one showing the assets. Take some R.E.S.P.O.N.S.I.B.I.L.I.T.Y. It's not up to everyone else to manage your bosom.
Get OVER yourself.
Until YOU have this problem, hush, or offer some advice, other than a potentially DEADLY surgery.
Get a reduction or don't ask everyone else in the world to NOT notice. YOU'RE the one showing the assets. Take some R.E.S.P.O.N.S.I.B.I.L.I.T.Y. It's not up to everyone else to manage your bosom.
WTF? You act as if the OP is doing something ("showing the assets") when she's just trying to go to work and make a living in the body she has. How is any of this her fault?
I'm 34DD and have never, ever had a problem getting a job. It's all in how you dress and how you present yourself (aside from your experience, education, and qualifications).
YES I have been through it too. I'm a DD and small framed. No matter what I wear unless its covered by a jacket, my girls are way out there. I always used to get snide comments from the ugly, fat older women hating on me. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful!!!
Bust size has nothing to do with beauty, body size or age. You can still be a DD and be ugly, fat, or old, or all of the above.
I'm guessing it isn't your bust size that makes people hate you.
People always assume sexual harassment is just from the opposite sex but.........I beg to differ.
How true.
Some women are just vicious. Sounds like female bullying to me. These women have some jealousy issues they need to work on. I hope they get off your back, I imagine your back is strained enough as it is. LOL. Good luck
What is appropriate on a small/medium chested woman is often deemed inappropriate for large chested women. I mean the EXACT same shirt! I always found that odd?
Guess they don't want you wearing V-necks or low scoop necks is my guess.
What is appropriate on a small/medium chested woman is often deemed inappropriate for large chested women. I mean the EXACT same shirt! I always found that odd?
Guess they don't want you wearing V-necks or low scoop necks is my guess.
Actually, a v-neck on me minimizes the appearance of a large chest. If I wear a shirt with a round or jewel neck (at the base of the neck) it makes my chest look HUGE. I tend to wear things that are a little bit lower (but NEVER so low that I am exposing cleavage) because it makes me look smaller. I also never wear things that are baggy. Baggy draws attention to the chest area. My clothes are always fitted and draw attention to my waist. If the OP experiments with different styles, she'll come up with something that emphasizes something other than her chest.
I share the problems of several of the women who post here, but mine is much more extreme. I haven't worn a DD since high school- I am a 38F and I have the biggest breasts of pretty much anyone I know. I can't even buy a bra in an American store which is a pain. I am a black woman and I am also just plain curvy, with big hips and thighs and a smaller waist. Most clothing lines are not exactly made to flatter women built like that, so shopping often literally makes me cry.
I am a lawyer so I have to dress professionally daily. I wear Tahari and Jones of New York suits (the latter has great stretch suits). It takes forever to find ones that button down over my chest, but you just have to shop patiently. Under my suits, I wear button-down shirts- trick that I use is to sew them shut between the buttons so they don't pop open. Kind of defeats the purpose of a button-down shirt, but you get the professional look and don't worry about embarrassment.
When I'm not in court, I wear pants (Jones of NY), button-down shirts, or sweaters.
Now the worst thing is having to find a winter coat that buttons over my chest, but that's another story.
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