Can you ever get it back? (looks, difference, thin)
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LMAO Is he gay? It's just that I've never seen a guy dog wear a tiara. Come to think of it, I've never seen any dog wear a tiara. LOL He's very handsome and debonair. He reminds me of my Duchess, a G/S ex police dog I had when I was 10 to 13. She was an angel and I still miss her. They're such gorgeous and wonderful dogs.
Oh no he has a fiance but he likes the finer things in life He loves to be petted and kissed by blonde women
Ditto on eating healthy! I love healthy food and really makes me feel better and hardly ever have drinks besides an occasional Cosmo How is your hair? A medium shorter choppy style is very good for looking younger as well. Evaulate your makeup as well
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If you smoke you have to stop. That REALLY ages your face. I'm 42 and have friends who smoke ( they've smoked for years) and they are in their early 30s and look at least 10 years older than ME.
I used to smoke but I quit about 8 years ago. I hated being a slave to it, the reasons to quit were just way too many--and they didn't even include my health.
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Ditto on eating healthy! I love healthy food and really makes me feel better and hardly ever have drinks besides an occasional Cosmo How is your hair? A medium shorter choppy style is very good for looking younger as well. Evaulate your makeup as well
My hair is just above my shoulders and I rarely wear makeup and when I do, it's minimal. The more I wear, the older I look.
I'm trying to eat healthier. And I've started Homozon. OMG that stuff... [shudder]...never mind, it's good for me--it's good for me--it's good for me. Sorry, trying to brainwash myself.
We all know what it's like of being under stress after losing loved ones and I agree with the posters above.
Another thing you can do is get a facial. Go get a pro one, learn how to do it yourself and then get some good products and have a do it yourself facial. A full body massage is also something good to do for yourself.
Both these will help relieve stress and you'll start to get your youthful looks back.
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We all know what it's like of being under stress after losing loved ones and I agree with the posters above.
Another thing you can do is get a facial. Go get a pro one, learn how to do it yourself and then get some good products and have a do it yourself facial. A full body massage is also something good to do for yourself.
Both these will help relieve stress and you'll start to get your youthful looks back.
A facial sounds nice. I've never had a professional one but I learned how to do my own in cosmetology and I do them--as well as give myself pedicures weekly. I try to pamper myself but something's going on. I'm getting lazy or something. I'm trying to pick it up. I'm checking into dog-walking as someone suggested. Not sure I can handle it but I'm thinking about it.
It sounds to me like you are focusing to much time and energy on your outer core. Look more to your insides for your self worth. You can get plastic surgery, excercise til your a stick, do yoga whatever, but being unhappy with your outerappearance is usually a bi product of your insides. I can relate trust me. I am one who went through something similar recently. I am mid thirties and have always looked about ten years younger. When I finally started seeing some aging, it depressed me too. This is how I got over it. For to many years I put all of my self worth in being the "good looking guy" and not enough importance on other things. I guess you can say I was a bit shallow. It's not easy to admit this. Only when I started to treat others better (mostly people in my life), did I begin to build back my self esteem. I found my esteem again by becoming a better person. Your problems aren't with your outsides. There with your inside.
There is more to you as a person than a "good looking person". Find that and you will be fine. One thing I've learned is that we all age. Know that no one is susceptible to aging. Aging to some degree is a humility that none of us can escape. But how we deal with it is what determines how we will go forward. If you look for outside influences, ex, plastic surgery, exercise, not eating, etc to fix the problem. Eventually these problems will resurface, or you will always find something else to improve. As far as I know. There is not a surgery for long term fixing. Meaning. All these solutions mentioned are a short term fix. You need fixing for the long haul. Just like I did. No surgery fixes you forever. Most people get these things done and still feel bad. Or they continue to find one thing after another to have surgery on, where instead of looking younger they begin to look stranger. Feeling better I learned is an inside job.
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It sounds to me like you are focusing to much time and energy on your outer core. Look more to your insides for your self worth. You can get plastic surgery, excercise til your a stick, do yoga whatever, but being unhappy with your outerappearance is usually a bi product of your insides. I can relate trust me. I am one who went through something similar recently. I am mid thirties and have always looked about ten years younger. When I finally started seeing some aging, it depressed me too. This is how I got over it. For to many years I put all of my self worth in being the "good looking guy" and not enough importance on other things. I guess you can say I was a bit shallow. It's not easy to admit this. Only when I started to treat others better (mostly people in my life), did I begin to get esteem. I found my esteem again by becoming a better person. Your problems aren't with your outsides. There with your inside. There is more to you as a person than a "good looking person". Find that and you will be fine. One thing I've learned is that we all age. Know that no one is susceptible to aging. But how we deal with it is what determines how we will go forward. If you look for outside influences, ex, plastic surgery, exercise, not eating, etc to fix the problem. Eventually these problems will resurface. As far as I know. There is not a surgery for long term fixing. Meaning. All these solutions mentioned are for a short term fix. You need fixing for the long haul. Just like I did. No surgery fixes you forever. Most people get these things done and still feel bad. Feeling better I learned is an inside job.
Actually, inside is the only place I do feel at peace and happy with myself. I like who I am, I'm someone I'd want to be around, myself, I don't do things I regret or am ashamed of, I'm at peace in every other way I can think of. I could never get plastic surgery, I don't think.
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