a good cookbook to learn from is Better Homes & Gardens New Cookbook is a cookbook that has been around many years
I have one from 1978 and I bought a newer edition few years ago. You can view some sample pages over at
www.amazon.com
a set of 4 pans is good to have , in different sizes you can boil rice , cook potatoes , make soup , cook stew etc ,
a skillet frying pan for steaks burgers
a small frying pan for fried eggs , crepes
potato peeler , knives 1 to cut meat 1 to cut vegetables , a bread knife for if you slice your own bread
carving boards one for bread one for meats/poultry/fish one for vegetables/fruits
dinnerware buying a setof 4 or just loose mix and match china is sturdier than stoneware
cutlery a set for 4 persons , depends on what it contains you can add extras if you eat lots of fish,
fish cutlery is nice measuring cups set , measuring spoons set , measuring pyrex beaker with handle , simple kitchen scales
colander I think you allready have since you mention making pasta
you don"t say if you have a baking oven if you do a baking dish for casseroles , a pyrex set and a pie dish and a roasting tin with handles
of the baking things pies are nice to make see BHG cookbook for recipes
eggtimer for when you cook eggs if you do that often eggcups & little spoons
cooking spoons that are heatproof
a mixing bowl
a salad bowl or salad plates , then you can make single salads straight onto the plate
a wok is nice to have you can do stir fry in one pan ( beef strips & veggies) and in one of the set pans you cook rice or noodles
a mixing jar for vinaigrettes is nice to make your own salad dressing
if you use Kikkoman soy sauce the small table serving bottle can be recycled into a dressing bottle
extra tea towels useful for many things , salad spinner perhaps if you use it often
some condiments you can learn to make yourself smaller size whisk and small bowl, a blender is useful to have
potato masher if you make mashed potatoes from scratch a sturdy stainless steel one will last a lifetime
steel pans last longer non-stick pans get scratchy with time and have to be replaced
some plastic containers to save leftovers , depends on what you can use those in salads , sandwhiches etc
If you get into homemade soup a soup ladle to serve , the largest pan of the set can be used to make soup , there exist soup pans but those are a bit big for just 2 persons
serving spoons are usually part of the cutlery set if not get them separately , a cooking utensils set , for 2 persons having 4 of items is a minimum more if you do not wash up dishes right away
if you get into special recipes these days there are specialty pans pots for everything imaginable cookery wise
with a 4 set pan you can cook a menu of meat vegetables potatoes sauce/gravy
if you cook recipes that freeze well you can freeze some meals for a busy day , see BHG cookbook has a section on this
Dessert dishes icecream coupes espresso cups . Ice cream scoop. Serving trays. Some serving platters. Carving set if you are into big meats roast beef leg of lamb virginia ham whole chickens etc
Some guys like to use a meat cleaver but a regular chefs meat knife will do. The meat cleaver is handy if you want to hack ribs into smaller pieces.Watch the fingers and work careful.Youtube has lots of videos on cooking. Foodwishes is one of them. For Japanese food CookingWithDog. There are many more seeing others cook is very instructional.
Well I am sure I forgot things will be back with the sequel...... Wishing you success with the cooking.