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Originally Posted by nightbird47
I suspect in another time she would not have ended up marrying as late or marrying her choice, but the world had changed.
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Not necessarily. Look at other royal/nobility marriages from earlier in the 20th century/late 19th century, most women did not marry until they were in their 20s. Elizabeth's mother was 23. Granted, her maternal grandmother was only 19 but then her paternal grandmother was 26.
Here's all of Elizabeth's aunts and great aunts who married and how old they were when they first married (all those that I could find data on, I did not pick and choose)
Great Aunts:
Louise, Princess Royal was 22 when she married in 1889.
Maud, Queen of Norway was 27 when she married in 1896.
Lady Constance Bowes-Lyon was 28 when she married in 1893.
Lady Mildred Marion Bowes-Lyon was 22 in 1890.
Aunts:
Mary, Princess Royal, Elizabeth's aunt, was 25 when she married in 1922.
Mary Elphinstone, Lady Elphinstone, was 27 in 1910.
Rose Leveson-Gower, Countess Granville, was 26 in 1916.
So on the contrary, Elizabeth marrying when she was 21 was actually fairly young in comparison to most of her closest female relatives who married in earlier time periods.
I'm certainly not saying it was unheard of for any woman of any class to marry as a teen, just that by the 19th/20th century, and in any class, it was much more common for woman to marry in their early to mid 20s, so they certainly were not considered "old maids". Anyone who has spent time researching family history should know what a ridiculous notion that is and if not, they must not be paying very close attention to ages at first marriage.
Looking at my own tree, the average age at first marriage was 23, the mode was 21, and the median 22. These marriages occurred all over the country, sometimes in foreign countries, and spanned from colonial times up to current day. I accept that average age at first married might vary by location, but not so much that one was considered an old maid if they didn't marry as a teenager.