How do people move in just a car? (not sure I can) (location, house)
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Thanks so much, everyone. That was all really helpful. This may be TMI, but...
I tried to plan for this, but one major complication (which I didn't mention in this thread but have in another) is that I have frequent migraines and had somewhat experimental surgery for chronic migraines maybe 5 months ago. It took me a while to recover from that, and while I'm doing much better, enough that I think I can move, it left me with extreme light sensitivity and still some migraines. So I end up doing most of my work as it gets darker (which is not when post offices, etc. are open) and miss whole days (like today) because of just being sick and in pain.
I'm honestly not sure how I'm going to do this cross-country drive, especially to an even sunnier place. That's why I was hoping to fly originally...but I am going to get special sunglasses for migraines and do my best. It's only a one-time trip, at least I hope.
So, this seems like a huge uphill battle, but if it comes down to giving or throwing lots of things away, I'll take a deep breath and do it. Thanks so much again for all the advice and ideas.
Maybe you could drive the real small U-Haul. I hate interstate driving, too, but the small one maybe doable? And, ship stuff, via UPS. They do a good job. Or, maybe trailer a small U-Haul type trailer w/ stuff in it? You could ship via "U-Pack", the smallest size container. They do a fabulous job, but pricey. Their customer service is so excellent.
Make sure your cat is in a secure carrier. I double, triple checked that mine were secure in theirs when I traveled w/ them. Maybe drive her around places to get her used to it now--when you stop, then give her a cat treat, so to reinforce the positive side of traveling. I know someone did this to ready their dog for a trip.
I have about three weeks before I'm due to move cross-country, and I'm having anxiety that's keeping me up at night. It mainly has to do with how on earth I'm going to reduce all my things to what I can take with me in a car (with a cat and a few cameras), as I'd planned.
I moved across town a year ago, and had movers with a full-sized moving truck for furniture but also clothes, lots of papers, old photo negatives...then just regular kinds of stuff. Papers especially are a problem...I do a lot of creative writing, and I have critiques from a writing group I don't want to discard before I go over them.
Anyway...I'm wondering how people do it, move across country using just a car. I had a friend who did it, but she moved into a furnished apartment and was really a minimalist (which I'd like to be!). I'm going to sell all my furniture, of course, but I can't see how everything else will fit, even after I cut way down.
In terms of other options...I don't feel comfortable driving a U-Haul cross country. I've thought of PODS or something like them, but they're expensive and I don't know if I have that much stuff. I'm planning to ship my books (two small boxes of them) to my new landlord because I'm moving to an apartment not in a complex...and I'm now doubting that, wondering if I should have picked a more standard complex that could accept packages. (She didn't seem to want to hold more for me, and said it wouldn't be a good idea to ship to my empty place.)
So yes, I'm a mess...I hope once I decide on a solution, I'll rest easier. I've lived here 10 years and just accumulated so much. Thanks for any ideas, and sorry so long.
I moved across the country a little over a year ago in just a car (a very big buick which was nice). My old room-mate kept a few things that I would still like to get eventually and he shipped my library once I got there. That helped a lot, but if he hadn't been there, I would have had to ship it myself since I wouldn't have been able to part (willingly) with my library. I lived out west for 9 years before moving, but I hadn't accumulated much. I'm a minimalist also, so it wasn't too difficult. It was a great drive though; just wish I had had a little more time, but had to start work once I got there.
Thanks, you all...I have a 10-year-old Nissan Altima...maybe not land yacht-sized, but pretty decent, I think. (Still, the cat in carrier will take up a good bit of space!)
Honestly I read the moving threads just to read how many wealthy people there are out there.
"Just get rid of everything and buy new when you get there".
Works great if you are moving from one furnished apartment to another, not so well if you will need to furnish a house, buy new hobby supplies, etc.
On top of that, a scanned photo or paper is MUCH easier to lose than a hard copy AND a scanned copy. A hard drive is like a library, where if a bit of static hit one of the book shelves, all of the books burst into flames.
I have about three weeks before I'm due to move cross-country, and I'm having anxiety that's keeping me up at night. It mainly has to do with how on earth I'm going to reduce all my things to what I can take with me in a car (with a cat and a few cameras), as I'd planned.
I moved across town a year ago, and had movers with a full-sized moving truck for furniture but also clothes, lots of papers, old photo negatives...then just regular kinds of stuff. Papers especially are a problem...I do a lot of creative writing, and I have critiques from a writing group I don't want to discard before I go over them.
Anyway...I'm wondering how people do it, move across country using just a car. I had a friend who did it, but she moved into a furnished apartment and was really a minimalist (which I'd like to be!). I'm going to sell all my furniture, of course, but I can't see how everything else will fit, even after I cut way down.
In terms of other options...I don't feel comfortable driving a U-Haul cross country. I've thought of PODS or something like them, but they're expensive and I don't know if I have that much stuff. I'm planning to ship my books (two small boxes of them) to my new landlord because I'm moving to an apartment not in a complex...and I'm now doubting that, wondering if I should have picked a more standard complex that could accept packages. (She didn't seem to want to hold more for me, and said it wouldn't be a good idea to ship to my empty place.)
So yes, I'm a mess...I hope once I decide on a solution, I'll rest easier. I've lived here 10 years and just accumulated so much. Thanks for any ideas, and sorry so long.
Well, I have friends who live in their cars, so it all depends on how much 'stuff' you want to keep - and what kind of car you drive. What are your objections to driving a small U-haul (even a van) across country? You could use a toad and pull your car behind you. DH and I have done that several times - no probs.
You really need very little with you when you get started out in a new location. Clothes, a frying pan, a cooking pot, some dishes and cutlery. An inflatable mattress was the only "furniture" that I had when I moved to a new city after university. Pack a shower curtain and some towels. Some toiletries, soap. Everything else you can buy when you get there. Buy used furniture when you get there. Get a futon and sleep on that after you get settled.
We all have so much junk that accumulates over the years. But that stuff isn't essential for living. You'll be amazed at how you won't miss all your material possessions during your first few months after moving. You'll have no clutter to dust or to trip over.
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