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Old 03-19-2013, 04:11 PM
 
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That is of a decent size population...?

Portland, Seattle, and San Francisco sound like the perfect fit for me except that as a sexually conservative person I'd probably be very out of place. I'm the kind of girl who would not be okay with my boyfriend hanging out at a strip club (if a guy is in a committed relationship, he has no business drooling over girls' asses and boobs in a nude bar, at least in my opinion), or having an open relationship, and I wouldn't have sex with someone unless I could imagine myself marrying them. I'm okay with my boyfriend watching porn, but that's it. No threesomes, hell to the freaking no. Monogamy, plain and simple, please and thank you.

Live and let live..yadda yadda I know, but I'd prefer living amongst a population who generally shares this ideology. Driving around Los Angeles, for example, I didn't like all the billboards advertising the Ashley Madison site and various strip clubs. Nor the prostitutes milling around in high heels along the streets in other cities I've lived. Just not a nice environment to be in.

And yes, I'm sure wherever city I move I can find someone who shares these feelings. Yeah, yeah I know. But still. Any cities fit this bill...?

Sounds like Burlington might be like that. Judging in part from their low rankings of all STD's, among of the lowest in the nation: http://news.menshealth.com/americas-...es/2012/04/05/, and yet they're just half religious and over 80% Democrat. Still, a small city indeed.

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Old 03-19-2013, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Florida
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You can be sexually conservative anywhere. I mean, there are sexually active people everywhere, no matter what. So just be yourself and use protection.
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Old 03-19-2013, 04:42 PM
 
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You can be sexually conservative anywhere. I mean, there are sexually active people everywhere, no matter what. So just be yourself and use protection.
As I already said, having predicted this response: Live and let live..yadda yadda I know, but I'd prefer living amongst a population who generally shares this ideology.
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Old 03-19-2013, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Louisiana to Houston to Denver to NOVA
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No responsible, mature man will cheat on you in a damn strip club. That depends on your choice of man, not the metro area in which you chose to reside.
If you know this, why ask?

This is why we don't understand women.
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Old 03-19-2013, 09:47 PM
 
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Because different metro areas are not all the same. The variation is why I posted the thread.
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Old 03-19-2013, 09:53 PM
 
Location: Up on the moon laughing down on you
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You can get screwed over from Utah to Massachusetts. Its not the city its the person you decide to bump uglies with.

you never know where you will find your angel. On the otherhand, Douchebags are everywhere too.
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Old 03-19-2013, 10:00 PM
 
Location: Medfid
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Boston might kind of work for you, I guess. We have a somewhat socially conservative politically liberal reputation, and last time I checked there were way fewer strip clubs in Copley Square than in Times Square.

But as everyone else has been saying, you find different types of people everywhere...
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Old 03-19-2013, 10:04 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Boston might kind of work for you, I guess. We have a somewhat socially conservative politically liberal reputation, and last time I checked there were way fewer strip clubs in Copley Square than in Times Square.

But as everyone else has been saying, you find different types of people everywhere...
Yeah, you're actually kind of right about Boston. It's politically liberal, but it's still a business-minded city. It's not really about entertainment and living in the fast lane. But if you want to be sexually active there, you totally can, too. There's lots of young people and singles there.
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Old 03-19-2013, 11:44 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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Because different metro areas are not all the same. The variation is why I posted the thread.
In theory, I could see how a city with less strip clubs means less types of people to attend strip clubs. But there's likely going to strip clubs in whatever metro you look in. If you look for it, you will find it.

Looking up "strip club" on google maps seems to indicate that strip clubs are more popular on the West Coast than they are on the East (with the exception of NYC and Florida). Though overall just about every city large and small has a few pockets of strip clubs.

Portland is covered in strip clubs. I live in a metro twice Portland's size and there's not nearly as many strip clubs.

So I guess my suggestion is to find a nice Midwestern suburb?
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Old 03-20-2013, 12:21 AM
 
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