Should I move to a new city/state??

[CTgirl99]

Hi- I lived in MA for 2 yrs (brighton and somerville) so I can certainly understand your love of MA in general. However, if you have had a re-occuring desire to experience a new place then you should listen to that feeling. MA isn't going anywhere-If you move out to MN and hate it, you can always find your way back. I say go for it while there aren't any kids in the picture. You never know until you try and you don't want to have any regrets! Good luck!

[radraja]

If you're planning to have kids, I'd stay put or move to a nearby state so the kid could have a relationship with the grandparents. Been there, done that, and glad I stayed/moved nearby, considering my kid's grandmother died last year at age 67. Had we moved when and where I wanted they would have never gotten a chance to know each other.

I completely agree. I just think that it's really important for kids to be close with their family members.

[Newdaawn]

I think 3 hours away is a good distance - driving time that is. YOu are far enough to have privacy but close enough for an occasional visit on special days.