Honestly...I really don't know. San Diego is nice so is San Fran (albeit a bit liberal for my tastes)...
Sedona, AZ would be a nice place to retreat to. It has beautiful scenery and great people! I'd probably buy a mountain-side home here if I had the $$.
Rancho Santa Fe is another great area (a distant cousin of mine lives there, unfortunately he's loaded....I'm not
).
But if money was no object, I'd buy a couple thousand scenic acres of land in Montana and build a large log-style home. I could retreat there in the summertime when the heat here is unbearable. Scottsdale in the winter, Montana in the summer, Sedona for an all around retreat; it sounds good to me...now who's going to approve my loan
?