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Old 06-18-2009, 07:06 AM
Location: Hudson Florida
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I live in a rural area of Florida which while my daughter was in school had some great teachers and she went through the school system and graduated at her own level. She then went on to learn life skills and learning to be (somewhat) independent and even "works" in a local supermarket, bagging, stocking etc.

Now that her school life is coming to an end I am finding a serious lack of facilities where she can be a useful member of society. I am seriously thinking about moving so that she can have somewhere that she can go each day so that she is not stuck in her room for the rest of her life.

Summer vacations are long and boring for her and even though I am self employed I do not have a lot of time to spare to be with her.

I am reaching out to anyone here on the forum that has experience with a similar situation, can recommended a town, city or area that has good facilities that don't have too long waiting lists....or an other advice or suggestions, would be very welcome....

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Old 06-18-2009, 07:33 AM
Location: where my heart is
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UCP is nationwide. Sunrise Community also has facilities throughout Florida. There are a few others, but I am sorry I don't remember their names. Generally, speaking there are far more on the east coast than the west, and in the bigger cities. Try doing a google search for developmental disability facilities in Florida. I used to work in Day Hab. Your daughter could go to Day Hab during the day. If she is high functioning, they could probably arrange for her to work part time. They will provide bus services to and from her home to the Day Hab facility and also back and forth to her job if she is eligible for that.

Good luck.
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Old 06-18-2009, 08:37 AM
Location: Chicago
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Check out Misericordia in Chicago. It's a residential facility (like a big college campus) for children and adults with developmental disabilities. Misericordia has a number of work opportunity programs for adults including a garden, a bakery, and a restaurant. They have a long waiting list for folks to move in but I know they have day workers who live outside of Misericordia. Here's their website: www.misericordia.com
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Old 06-18-2009, 09:31 AM
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Avoid Kansas City like the plague. These people will probably pick on her. When I worked at a Pizza Hut in a decent suburb in the mid 1990's I noted that full grown adults would pick on a retarded guy that was working in the place for a few hours a week. Apparently Pizza Hut had some kind of arrangement to have people with disabilities working in some of their stores. And I also saw the same thing at another store that I worked at. They had a mildly retarded guy working there part time and the store owner would actually pick on the kid in front of the store help and customers.
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Old 06-18-2009, 10:46 AM
Location: Tampa
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I live in Tampa. I know there are places (social venue) for people like your daughter. I am sorry that I don't know the names of these clubs or places. I had a friend (no longer friends with her), but her brother-in-law was schizophrenic. He was picked up every day and brought to this social place where they did all kinds of things. He really enjoyed going every day.
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Old 06-18-2009, 10:55 AM
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MN has many organizations, facilities and services that help people with developmental disabilities find useful employment. Lots of local employers are on board. Contact the PACER Center in the Twin Cities, Arc/MN, the Institute for Community Integration at the University of MN and the Governor's Council on Develomental Disabilities for futher info. Good luck!
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Old 06-18-2009, 11:56 AM
Location: DFW
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I would recommend that you first consider some places that you would want to live. Then call the ARC in those state(s) and see if you can find someone who will be honest with you about recommending communities that are welcoming.
I would also ask them about about potential employers in the area that work with agencies to provide supervised employment. Or would you consider a job shelter type of situation for her? Also, having an agency that would work with you and her to help her be transported to the facility. There should hopefully be a disability newsletter in the state that you choose (We get one for our area) that should provide the latest news about such activities. Here in CA, we have the regional center system, though that picture is VERY gloomy at present, with all of the proposed cuts.
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Old 06-18-2009, 08:41 PM
Location: Southwest Washington
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This is a non-profit organization in my community that works with developmentally disabled adults to teach them job skills and provides supervised work in the community as well as community/recreational activities. It's a great organization, and I imagine there MUST be a similar organization in your area or region.
SPARC Enterprises Home Page

Best wishes and good luck.
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Old 07-13-2009, 09:40 PM
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Your posting could have been written by me. We were in the almost identical situation in Martin County, Florida. We moved out here to a rural area in Washington, where the services are OK. A lot quicker than Florida, but not fabulous. We're thinking of moving back to the Hampton Roads area of Virginia again because of my husband's job opportunities, but I don't know how the services are there for adults. We lived there before when our daughter was still in school and not an adult. I'd love to email you so we can compare notes.
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Old 08-17-2010, 03:04 PM
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Hello, there are alot of places in the Texas area I know that that seems so far away but we have group homes that have openings and no waiting list. The group home that I am the house manager at currently has one opening and will have 3 more openings come September 1st, 2010 so we are out here. Moderator cut: contact information

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