I am being forced to move by the end of summer.

It's a long story so I won't go into all the details; let's just say that legal issues are
not involved.
So...this is me and this is what I need:
I am a single male in my early 40's. I am generally a quiet, laid-back person which is good to some extent but makes it difficult to meet people, make friends. I don't need to be "Mr. popular" but it would be nice to meet people to do things with occasionally.
I work in the low pay, high turnover social service sector. I wouldn't mind getting out of it but I don't mind it either. The problem is that the low pay sucks when you live in an area with a high cost of living. I have no experience with anything else outside of hospitality, (another low-paying industry) nor do I desire to get into the high-pay, high tech industry.
I do have a bachelors degree in sociology. I might consider going back to school in order to get a masters but, I don't want to feel that I
have to in order to make a livable wage.
I need at least 3 distinct seasons. I could live with or without a cold, hard winter.
I am pretty "open-minded". I don't mind gangster's, hillbillies, hippies, mountain-men, country-folk, etc. What I don't like are people that are too judgemental towards others
Sports: I love to watch but I'm ok with the minor-league, college and/or high school scene. I don't need pro.
What else?
Let's see........The area needs to be "pet-friendly" (dogs) and conducive to a "take it as it comes" attitude.
Please help me decide.