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Old 06-11-2016, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Whatever prompted it......I think it was a healthy decision......and I think it will help you free up some of your emotional energy....which will be wonderfl for your visit.
I agree. Its like busting up a log jam for Cyn.

 
Old 06-11-2016, 11:47 PM
 
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Big hugs to everyone on this thread
 
Old 06-12-2016, 04:34 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Good Morning everyone. Cyn.....I stopped by earlier to say hello .... but you hadnt posted yet. Good for you donating your DH clothing......it will help you to "let go" .... his clothing is an attatchment that you were ready to let go of....that is difficult but healthy.....I congradulate you. It is good to be clear about attatchments to physical reminders vs attatchments to relationships and precious memories. You are moving forward.....bit by bit. I am proud of the progress you have made.

It will be nice also when Amber comes to visit.....for her to see her mother is making gains.....parting with DH's clothes is part of that. You need to make emotional space and physical space in which you can live a healthy and happy life.

Have a good day.
Congratulations Cyn! Yes I know it is difficult. But deep down inside your heart and soul you knew the time had come to be!

Elston, wise words as usual!

Y'all have a blessed upcoming week and try to stay cool and hydrated as it is of upmost importance.
When your body is running like a tip top sewing machine, so will your body, soul and mind..

I need to follow my own advice!

Regards,
Shh
 
Old 06-12-2016, 07:02 AM
 
Location: Alamogordo, NM
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Have good Sunday's everyone. There is horrible news of another nightclub shooting, this one in Orlando. 20 dead, 42 injured. Awful, horrible news. There are so many disgruntled people these days.


I don't want you to focus on this story, I want everyone to enjoy their Sunday. cynwldkat - keep up the good work, helping others and taking great care of your animals. You have many that love you on here!
 
Old 06-12-2016, 09:55 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Thank you so much elkoteonics....that means so much to me...I have been having some very difficult days and the worst part is I can't even understand them. Except the loss of my kitty--I know that weighs heavy on my heart, the heat is hard on my dogs and I worry--yes worry about everything it seems. They do have shade and always water but I worry.....would love to figure out how to change that. I have decided to bring the dogs in on the 4th of July because of the shooting and fireworks. Just have a lot on my mind and knowing someone really cares means a lot to me so once again thank you! The loneliness gets to me a lot!
That's where having all of you helps me so much!

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Old 06-12-2016, 10:52 AM
 
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Ahhhhhhhh sweetie im sorry......... If i could I would come over;give ya big hugs and try to make ya happy again
 
Old 06-12-2016, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Alamogordo, NM
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I wish at times we could all get together and give each other a real hug! I love you all on here.
 
Old 06-13-2016, 05:10 AM
 
Location: In a house
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I agree and again thanks! Hugs are good and feel wonderful! But just knowing someone cares means a lot to me! Long night at work last night. The girl I was working with wasn't feeling very well so I tried my best to cover for her and do my work too--I was very tired when I got home! Hopefully it won't be as hot today! Hope everyone has a blessed day!
 
Old 06-14-2016, 05:01 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Hope everyone has a blessed day!
 
Old 06-14-2016, 05:13 AM
 
Location: Florida (SW)
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I have been profoundly sad about the murders in Orlando. I am going to a vigil this noontime to stand with others to remember and honor the victims. I am hoping that will help me find some peace. Namaste
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