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Old 02-07-2017, 06:43 AM
 
Location: Florida (SW)
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Originally Posted by cynwldkat View Post
I woke up to a fairly warm morning! Nice! Took the dogs for their walk and they seem to be doing so much better! That is always a good thing for me!
Today I will get more of my DH's ebay items and my ebay items re-boxed and ready for selling to that man. I didn't realize just how much stuff I still have--it's lot! Guess I've had my head in a hole trying to ignore it all. I suppose this is one more of those steps to healing!
Have a blessed day everyone!
Good Morning cyn. Yea! Yes I do think that organizing all the "stuff" from your husband's and your online business....is part of the healing. You have been buried in stuff from the past....and you dont need it anymore and it is in the way of your growth and healing. Clear it out and sell it and reclaim your space and your life. This is very good for you! Not easy but essential work. Your old way of life is gone.....you still have the memories of what you and your DH were doing....but you dont need "the stuff"--its in your way.

I salute you.

 
Old 02-07-2017, 08:53 AM
 
Location: Alamogordo, NM
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Good Morning cyn. Yea! Yes I do think that organizing all the "stuff" from your husband's and your online business....is part of the healing. You have been buried in stuff from the past....and you dont need it anymore and it is in the way of your growth and healing. Clear it out and sell it and reclaim your space and your life. This is very good for you! Not easy but essential work. Your old way of life is gone.....you still have the memories of what you and your DH were doing....but you dont need "the stuff"--its in your way.

I salute you.

This.^^^^


Everyone enjoy their Tuesday's!
 
Old 02-07-2017, 09:16 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Thank you elston and elko for that vote of confidence...I really need it right now! Between tears Of being overwhelmed I have packed several boxes. There are some new items mixed in with the vintage and some NASCAR items too--not to mention crystal and silver...but they are packed! I have so much more to do....so many emotions.....but as you said it is a step towards healing!
 
Old 02-07-2017, 12:12 PM
 
Location: In a house
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I'm exhausted, both physically and mentally. Tomorrow is work so I'm stopping for today. I had to do some laundry and a few things around the house plus go to the post office. I just fed the animals and am ready to walk them so we can kick back and relax for awhile until their night walk! It's over 70 degrees today---imagine that! But the clouds are back with rain returning soon! So for now I will be grateful for the dry warm weather! Have a lovely evening everyone!
 
Old 02-07-2017, 09:55 PM
 
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Originally Posted by cynwldkat
I woke up to a fairly warm morning! Nice! Took the dogs for their walk and they seem to be doing so much better! That is always a good thing for me!
Today I will get more of my DH's ebay items and my ebay items re-boxed and ready for selling to that man. I didn't realize just how much stuff I still have--it's lot! Guess I've had my head in a hole trying to ignore it all. I suppose this is one more of those steps to healing!
Have a blessed day everyone!
I hope you have a good sleep tonight CYN

I am sorry your so tired out!!!!!!!!!!

Please have a good wednesday
 
Old 02-08-2017, 04:27 AM
 
Location: In a house
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I did sleep pretty well thank you Dude! Only up a couple of times.
Very foggy out today.
I feel like I have stepped back a couple of steps in the last few days with packing up all those items....lots of memories. Hopefully once it's over and one I will step forward again! It's just hard right now!
Have a lovely day everyone!
 
Old 02-08-2017, 05:08 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Hope everyone stays safe with these wicked storms!
 
Old 02-08-2017, 07:19 AM
 
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Yes its been VERY MESSY here!!!!

Today is supposed to be near 50 but tonight more snow I hear...
 
Old 02-08-2017, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Alamogordo, NM
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cyn - just work through the emotions. They just tell you that you're alive and that you have been through a lot. Sending positive thoughts and well-wishes towards you!
 
Old 02-09-2017, 05:23 AM
 
Location: In a house
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Thank you!
It's very windy today and for some reason that makes me anxious! At least I will be at work so maybe that will make it easier!
Have a blessed day everyone!
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