My father is dying and he is not lucid. Should I visit?

[Moonlady]

You will never regret going. You may regret not going. If nothing else, you can provide support for the others that are there. Yes, you should go.

[brokensky]

Plan a trip; it doesn't have to be a long one. But go, and say your goodbyes.

Your stepmother may very much appreciate some support, too. She is doubtless worn out and running on reserve. Just having someone care enough to make that cup of tea and give her a hug may be of immense comfort to her right now.

I am so sorry to hear how things are transpiring with your father, Sheena12. (((hugs)))

[BeantownGirl19]

Absolutely go, if you don't you will regret it. When my father was dying, he was heavily sedated on Morphine for his final few days, but he did have brief moments of lucidity. I've been told that hearing is the last sense to go.

Also, your stepmother might need a break. I know how physically and emotionally exhausting it is to watch someone die. Even being able to go for a short walk or have a cup of coffee was a huge help for me.

[LynchburgLover]

You'll never regret going but you may regret not going. I've been there. It's awful and frightening to see a parent in non-lucid moments but on the chance that he recognizes you, it will mean the world to you. Worse thing that can happen is that he doesn't recognize you. You'll know you did your best.