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I have not lost many loved ones at all in my life, but my DH has lost many loved ones. He has lost so many that he doesn't deal well with it at all.
Recently, in 2015, he lost 2 good friends and his father. It totally messed his emotions up, and his job being super stressful, made him all the more vulnerable. He has not taken the time to grieve for their passing yet.
Anyway, I had met him not too long after his fiance had passed at age 46. I had never met her. But she has always been a part of our lives. I understand and accept that.
He had a health crisis back in 2012. He at that point, feared he wouldn't make it through the night, and was distraught.
Well, he got calmed down enough to sleep that night, finally.
She came to me in a dream, to speak with him. In my dream, they went to a separate room and closed the door. DH's great nephew, a child, was in my dream also. He would pass between the two rooms, updating me.
The next morning, I asked him if he had dreamed of her. He said yes, but couldn't explain it. But he said he felt more peaceful.
I explained to him my very vivid dream of what occurred. He said.."yes, that was it!", and asked me what she had said.
I explained that it was not for me to know their conversation. It was for him only to know and understand.
I sincerely feel she was still watching over him. Many strange things have happened similar to this, since we met in 2009.
But I no longer feel her presence. I feel she has moved on.
Yes, I do. I talk with my mother and step-father while I am doing the dishes every night. As a teen, before I went to college, this was a time of relaxation when my mom would sit at the kitchen table and drank her coffee and chat with us, while I washed and my stepfather dried. It was relaxing and joyful time for me, and still is. I've been doing this for over 20 years.
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