Now there is high unemployment, lots of crime, risk of tsunami/earthquakes, terrible schools which produces kids with no motivation who contribute to the crime situation.
I keep reading about people wanting to "buy" property when they will not even own the postage stamp piece of land they live on!
I've been to all the major islands several times and love visiting there, but would never want to live there. I know of several people who got stuck there because once you're there everything is so expensive it's impossible for some to move back to the mainland. You get in so deep financially that you can't get out and you become trapped. Many people have to borrow money from family to get out and back to the mainland.
People keep referring to the beaches like they are some personal playground. They are often crowded with homeless people living on them.
The tourist view of Hawaii is very different than living there. The beauty of the islands is a major factor for all of us who love being there, but the Aloha spirit is also a form of laziness. These people have no opportunities, especially today with the poor economy, and the ones that do move to Las Vegas for work. Do you want your children to lack motivation and think nothing is of urgency or not always be reaching for the stars?
I would think long and hard before uprooting my family, or even as a couple. In my opinion, visit there yearly and continue to love it, but it's doubtful you will make a great life there unless you are willing to make many many sacrifices. I would NEVER sacrifice the education of my children for the blind need of "living in paradise."
Good luck to you and please think as a responsible parent, not as a dreamer otherwise your life could potentially go from what is normal for you to a nightmare financially. The toll it will take on your children when you're always broke and they are poorly educated is not worth it to live near palm trees and a beach. Once they've grown and have lost out on many opportunities, their ignorance cannot be remedied by turning back time. Maybe it's you that wants to live in paradise, but if your children could comprehend the full situation on an adult level, they would not want to live someplace where they can't have access to the same cultural activities, museums and so forth. Sure there are some great things, but they will be limited in so many ways. Want them to learn about the Hawaiin culture? Then take them on vacation every year.
I know someone single who is a professional who moved to Maui and has hinted at their misery after only a year. I cannot stress enough how great Hawaii is for a vacation, but how it places limits on your lifestyle and future. Sure, if you're a trust fund babe who likes to surf all day it's your place. But otherwise unless you're a native you are in for a HUGE surprise.