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Old 03-18-2015, 08:53 AM
 
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If it's just sex than that's still better than nothing. I prefer it not to be this way. I didn't want it to be this way. But I am just hoping the tablet will work. All I have in my memory is all the previous embarrassments of when I failed to get aroused, and that's hard to erase. I'm just very nervous right now. Extremely nervous, actually. I'm so nervous because I don't know how I'll react if the viagra doesn't work.
Viagra might help but it is not panacea. If you are tense and stressed out when you try to have sex than it might not work even with the medication. I think you really need to try to change your mindset when you try again. If all you are thinking of are previous failures and embarassment, then you might have the same problem again. You need to try to relax, take deep breaths, think neutral thoughts. Therapy might help a bit, it might me not that expensive if you have half decent health insurance. But therapist also needs to have experience your specific problems, not just listen to you.

But if you are dead set against it, at least try some meditation & relaxation methods that you can do yourself:
Relaxation Techniques for Stress Relief: Finding the Relaxation Exercises That Work for You
How to Reduce Stress: 10 Relaxation Techniques To Reduce Stress on the Spot

I found these exteremly helpful. But they only help if you do them every day... Best of luck.

 
Old 03-18-2015, 09:20 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Don't masterbate right before you go. Hold off for at least a day and a half. Try going to masseuses instead. Yoga
 
Old 03-18-2015, 09:27 AM
 
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A week ago I went to an escort, completely failed to get it up (2nd time), and now I've got some viagra as a last resort. The doc said my problem is purely psychological, and gave me 4 tablets, for a confidence boost. Then he said gradually take myself off it. So I'm going to go to another escort again soon in a few weeks, but I'm just not sure how much to take of this stuff. How bad are the side effects? I can handle a headache, but I hate nausea. Will lots of water decrease the side effects?

I need a short temporary fix. I've been single for 9 years. No girlfriend, no affection, no intimacy, and the loneliness is killing me. I hate admitting this. Women dominate my thoughts and all I keep having is these romantic dreams about them every night. I'm continuously being reminded of what I'm missing. When I failed to get it up it was the worst I've felt in a long, long time. If it happens again even with a dose of viagra, I don't know if I'll be able to take it. Therapy is out of the question. I'm not paying a fortune to sit there and talk about my feelings. If I had a wife, then maybe yes. But I'm never going to get a girlfriend because I'm ugly. An escort is my only option. All I've ever had was three one night stands years ago and even that didn't last as long as it should have. When I'm on my own and think about a woman I get so easily aroused, but when I'm in front of a escort I get terrified and nothing works. I need some assistance. I have four 50mg tablets here. Should I break the first one in half and take 25mg, or just take the whole damn thing? Will this viagra work for psychological erectile dysfunction? I couldn't get aroused at all last time. Not even slightly. So when I take the dose, will I finally be able to get it up if she just touches and plays with it? I'm really praying this stuff works.

Fix your mental status then your body should follow naturally.
Your "fix" will end up not being temporary and your mental status will not have changed.

You should also only take the amount prescribed, there are side effects that are quite dangerous to your health whether you are currently "healthy" or not.
Do not listen to desktop physicians regarding the dose of a prescribed medication.

As far as the escorts, your choice to waste your money for mindless sex that is bought but it still will not fix your mental status and could possibly make things worse.
 
Old 03-18-2015, 09:30 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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A week ago I went to an escort, completely failed to get it up (2nd time), and now I've got some viagra as a last resort. The doc said my problem is purely psychological, and gave me 4 tablets, for a confidence boost. Then he said gradually take myself off it. So I'm going to go to another escort again soon in a few weeks, but I'm just not sure how much to take of this stuff. How bad are the side effects? I can handle a headache, but I hate nausea. Will lots of water decrease the side effects?

I need a short temporary fix. I've been single for 9 years. No girlfriend, no affection, no intimacy, and the loneliness is killing me. I hate admitting this. Women dominate my thoughts and all I keep having is these romantic dreams about them every night. I'm continuously being reminded of what I'm missing. When I failed to get it up it was the worst I've felt in a long, long time. If it happens again even with a dose of viagra, I don't know if I'll be able to take it. Therapy is out of the question. I'm not paying a fortune to sit there and talk about my feelings. If I had a wife, then maybe yes. But I'm never going to get a girlfriend because I'm ugly. An escort is my only option. All I've ever had was three one night stands years ago and even that didn't last as long as it should have. When I'm on my own and think about a woman I get so easily aroused, but when I'm in front of a escort I get terrified and nothing works. I need some assistance. I have four 50mg tablets here. Should I break the first one in half and take 25mg, or just take the whole damn thing? Will this viagra work for psychological erectile dysfunction? I couldn't get aroused at all last time. Not even slightly. So when I take the dose, will I finally be able to get it up if she just touches and plays with it? I'm really praying this stuff works.
Looks like you have problem you should discuss with a medical professional. There is help for your condition. Counseling might be helpful too.
Good luck!
 
Old 03-18-2015, 10:03 AM
 
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OP,

My ex had problems in his early 30's and it ended up being his Prostate. Has your Dr. checked that? If not, you may want to try to see a Urologist.

Just sayin.... it could be medical too
 
Old 03-18-2015, 10:53 AM
 
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Looks like you have problem you should discuss with a medical professional. There is help for your condition. Counseling might be helpful too.
Good luck!
Did nobody READ the OP?

He DID go to a doctor. The DOCTOR prescribed the Viagra.

Cripes almighty people.

And everyone who's saying, 'this is a temporary fix, it won't correct the underlying problem..."

Well, that's what he said he wanted, a temporary fix.
 
Old 03-18-2015, 12:23 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Did nobody READ the OP?

He DID go to a doctor. The DOCTOR prescribed the Viagra.

Cripes almighty people.
And he should follow his doctor's prescription rather than asking the Internet if he needs to double down. There are side effects, after all. If he winds up in the ER with priapism or heart palpitations due to an overdose, he can sue his doctor for malpractice. What's he going to say now? "Uh, this guy on City-Data said I should."

If he's worried that he needs a stronger dose, that's a question for his doctor. Or he could follow doctor's orders and request something stronger for next time.
 
Old 03-18-2015, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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The internet says 1 pill one hour before.
 
Old 03-18-2015, 01:09 PM
 
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Op why, in the name of all that is reasonable, would you come here for something that ONLY a licensed medical doctor should diagnose?
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