Sexual peak - what does it mean exactly? (blood, advantage, men)

[erksdon]

What exactly does it mean to be at one's sexual peak?

Attractiveness?
Fertility?
Skill / ability?
Sex drive?

Another thing I don't understand is why people say to catch someone at their sexual peak (whatever that means). Surely it would be better to catch them before their sexual peak, because if they're already at their peak, then the only way is down. That makes sense, right?

[herethere12]

Sexual peak,IMO , is when the highest libido time frame.The sex drive. Like, for men it starts in teenage and stays for many years ( irrespective of attractiveness or skill ).For women its later, in 30s.

How early can you catch a guy before his teenage years, i dont know It spans many years , not for a couple of days

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by erksdon

What exactly does it mean to be at one's sexual peak?

Orgasm

[Londoncowboy30]

I think your reading in the the phrase too much mate, it's just a saying that empathises how confident and attractive they are.

It doesn't matter what age/shape/fertile they are if you fancy them then they are " at their sexual peak "

[BirdieBelle]

The way I always understood it was that it had more to do with how THEY felt mentally and emotionally about their sexuality, not their attractiveness in your eyes.

It has to do with their confidence, self-esteem, ability and interest.

[Raena77]

http://www.details.com/story/health-...ual-peak-at-18

[david0966]

Originally Posted by Raena77

http://www.details.com/story/health-...ual-peak-at-18

This is probably the most important part of that article:

"The easiest way to reach your sexual peak, regardless of age, is to invest in your health outside of the bedroom," Cadell says. "Diet and exercise can go a surprisingly long way to improving your sex life—and not just because you'll look hotter. They can increase testosterone levels, cut stress, and promote healthy blood flow to . . . you know what." And remember, your bed is for more than just sex. According to a study published in Brain Research, logging enough sleep can help keep your testosterone levels and sex life at their best.

I still don't feel like I've peaked.

[nald]

Sexual peak means different things to different people. I'd say it's not the sex frequency but rather the frequency of sexual arousal.
Some people claim that it's related to "emotional" bond but I learned that the only thing that the media, society, as well as numerous zombies who arose on feeding on such nonsense is this - they equate sexual desire with love. Generally speaking, love requires genuine emotions towards the other party, while sexual desire DOESN'T, what's generally the factor is the perceived "sexual opportunity".

[animalcrazy]

I'm still trying to figure out when my sexual peak was? We're in our late 50's and the physical side of our relationship is still amazing. I hope I don't peak for decades to come.

[erksdon]

I'm 42 and I tend to go for women that are 18 to mid 20s, and it's usually the older women who seem to have a bee in their bonnet about it. They say that I should go for women a couple of years younger than me or the same age as me, even a couple of years older. When I ask why, they say that women are at their sexual peak at that age range.

That makes no sense. They're certainly not more attractive than a 18-25 woman, certainly not more fertile, as for skill / ability that varies, and anyway who cares, anyone can learn (attractiveness goes a long way to making up for that anyway), and as for sex drive, it varies regardless of age, but by far the most important factor is attractiveness, which puts younger women way ahead.

In some ways I can understand the appeal of an older woman, but it's more of a novelty than genuine attraction. It's like going with an overweight or elderly woman, it's a bit of fun, something unusual and different. But other than that there's no advantage.